I need your opinion about the ins and the outs.?

Question

why is it that some people are so focused on looking good on the outside, yet on the inside they are mean and unhappy. whats up with that.

Answer 1

Because to many as long as everything seems ok on the outside then all is good.  My ex and I had the marriage that everyone wanted yet we were both miserable.  Eventually it caught up with us just as it does everyone else.  So now I know it is more important to be happy on both the in and out.  Hope this helped a little.

Answer 2

Because they are unhappy and feel ugly on the inside they can at least control how they look on the outside.  They don't understand that happiness comes from within.  It's kinda like a book..it may look good on the cover, but you read it and wonder why you wasted your time.

Answer 3

It is called 'being shallow'.  Look up Californian in the dictionary, and you will find the term personified...

Answer 4

Well I personally wouldn't know why but I think people just think they can get away with anything if they're hot.  

Answer 5

Because society and the media enforces the idea that in order to be desirable, successful...etc, you have to look good on the outside but they never mention working on your attitude instead so "some" people give more importance on their outside appearance.

Answer 6

Theyre just confused but maybe looks are all they have so theyre just flaunting their assets. But really beauty comes from within but some people never realize this so theyre miserable all the time