I need your opinion plz thx?

Question

Yesterday I was hanging out with some friends along with 1 of my closest friend who I've already fallen in love with last year. I'm not sure if she already knows. Maybe she does. I haven't directly told her yet. However I've sent a few "sweet" letters. I've known her for about 3 years but last year was the year we really got connected. Ever since then we've been hanging out with each other every week. BUT when I compare her to certain other friends, I notice we're not completely open with each other. So lately I've been trying to loosen up with her by showing a side of me she doesn't normally see. Yesterday we were having fun and just joking around with each other. Then I told her something about her car. I said that its getting like mine (what I meant by that was its getting busted up). But instead she replied "wet?" I know its suppose to be some type of sexual joke but it made me feel embarrassed a little. We usually never joke in a sexual way and I'm never the one to bring 1 up. Last time we did was last year. So this is the 2nd time basically. Should I be happy about it? Is this a good or bad start by trying to open up with each other?

By the way you're probably going to ask me if she feels the same way I feel about her. My answer is, I'm not sure yet. However I've been getting lots of signals lately. Even my friends noticed that we are always together and never apart. I spoke to 1 of my friends and asked him what he thought about it. He told me that he thought that both of us had something more than just friends. I was shocked because we really don't have anything more than a friendship. I told him that she was bi. He told me that he already knew without her directly telling him. He was thinking I had something to do with it. By the way (surprise)

Answer 1

hm i have a best guy friend that just told me that he loved me

i mean i love him to but you know as a friend

i dont want our friendsip to be ruined and all that

i mean we always joke around sexualy to but somtimes i think i might like him like that but am not to sure

but i think it is a good start you guys are getting really comfortable with one another

thats the only way the relationship can go any where is if you are comfortable enough with each other to talk about stuff like that  

Answer 2

awww..me and my best friend acted like that back in high school. We never pursued it thou. But now like 13yrs later I always wonder if I would be happier if we did. We thought alike, and he was so sweet and polite. I say go for it, but be careful that if you two get mad at each other it doesn't ruin the friendship. That's why we never tried. But he moved, i moved and I don't know if we will ever meet again. I'm married to someone else now.