I needto ask about my 1 week marriage?

Question

i'm 39 and he is 23 got married where he is in jail i need to know what people think. or jjust talk about this. thank you angie

Answer 1

Honestly? It sounds pretty odd to me. I can't really say anything about the age, as my husband is significantly older than I am. How long have you known him?

But in jail? What's he in for, and for how long? Do you have children?

The jail part kinda gets me.

Answer 2

i agree.  why would you marry someone in jail?  i just can't fathom that.

Answer 3

it is yo life... not ours... who cares what any body thinks! that what I say... if you are happy that is all that matters!

Answer 4

what i think   hahahahahahahaha

Answer 5

I am thinking why you would marry someone in jail!

Answer 6

I personally would have waited the two years, and then gotten married, what was the rush? Whatever happens I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 7

You are asking this question in the wrong place. I would suggest the Jerry Springer Show.

Answer 8

Angie...are you serious? why would anyone get married in jail?  

Answer 9

If this isn't a troll question, Honey, you should have had a talk with someone BEFORE marriage.  However, do the best you can with what you got.  Maybe you can raise him to do better.

Answer 10

More details. What did he go to jail for?  How long is he in for?

Answer 11

i hope he's not in there for life?

Answer 12

what we think? you gave almost no details, but the details you did give sound crazy/ emotionally unstable to me!

Answer 13

Its hard to explain from what direction that this is just whack, since its so whack from every direction.

1) No one should marry jailbirds: They're not available to be in a marriage, they have a previous gig with the state.

2) Marriage should only be between people of similar experiences and ages, and only after a reasonable period of getting to really know the other person. People with such a wide freedom & age gap cannot accomplish that.

Get an annulment. Then, get therapy for the issues that push you towards emotional and physically unavailable boys.  

Answer 14

I'm in a simular situation, somewhat.  My boyfriend is in jail and if he asked me to marry him I would do it in a heart beat.  But the thing is I knew him before he went to jail.  And also, I know why he wnt to jail.  The same reason I went to jail.  Because my ex is jealous.  Yes, my boyfriend has been in prison before and he did his time.  He swears he isn't going to do it again.  There is an age gap between my boyfriend and me.  I am 27 and he is 41.  And right now being with him has made me happier then I have been in any other relationship.  But now I also have a friend that married a guy in jail and he only married her so she would send him money while he was in there.  When he got out he didn't want anything to do wiht her.  I know when my man is getting out, what his charges where, and where our relationship stands.  He also knows that if he ever went to prision again he would lose me.  The only reason he did not lose me this time was because we were thrown in jail on the same charges over a child custody battle and my ex being jealous.  If you had a relationship before he went to jail then congrats.  Make sure you put your foot down and lay down on how your relationship is going to go so he won't get in trouble again and you two can have a great life togeather.  If you didn't know each other before he went to jail god help you.  I have seen it too many times.  I work at a DOC.  Some times it works out but 80% of the time it doesn't.  All I can say is good luck and don't let age get in the way of things it is just a number.

Answer 15

Um. Congrats?