I never wanted kids.. but now?

Question

i suddenly do.ive just realised it in the last like day.

why have i suddenly changed my mind??

Answer 1

lmao, in the last day!

If you have changed ur mind in a day, then u obviously need to re-think.

It is a life changer! but as long as u have a secure partner and u love him and u are both ready, then why not?

Answer 2

Your probably just feeling broody. Most people go through that at one stage in their life. Its a natural instinct.

Answer 3

What you're really saying is: "I suddenly want less money, no free time, more work, heartbreak, disappointment, and to worry all the time in exchange for a few precious moments (if I'm one of the lucky ones)."

My boys are in their first and second year of college right now, and I honestly don't think I'd do it all over again if given the chance.  Sounds bad doesn't it?  But then again I'm a heartless male, so take it for what it's worth.  Good luck.

Answer 4

well it happens sometimes but I would think things through before trying to have a baby sometimes it takes people a while to realize what they want and what they don't want this just so happen to be your time.

Answer 5

you changed your view on the world slowly over time and realised they may not be as bad as you thougth

Answer 6

your getting old.  happens to the best of us.  its your body changing your mind.  its plain old biology letting you know it is time to populate the earth and keep the species going.  

make sure you really really want kids and you would be a good mom before you let your hormones tell you what to do....

Answer 7

Because kids are lovely especially if they are your own. I am a 20 year old bloke and I would love to have a kid. Weird, I know. I think it could partly be down to the fact that all my friends are having them. Seeing how well these girls interact with their babies and the amount of love they have for them is amazing. Although, one thing I have noticed is that none of these kids dads have any involvement with them. Which personally, I think is mad. If i had a kid, I would want to spend as much time with him/her as I possibly could ! Teen pregnancy is on the rise, I personally, know people as young as 14 that are about to give birth. By the time they reach my age, their kid will be 6 years old, that makes me feel like my biological clock is ticking.

Answer 8

happened to me too - was adamant i was never having any.  One day i sanded the floor in the spare room, varnished it, stood back and went 'Awwwww!'.  The rest is history lol!

Answer 9

you are drunk. or you turned 30. i got really horny at 30 tho i still hate children with a passion.

Answer 10

it is called the biological clock and yours just started ticking