I often have dreams about him?

Question

sp o pften have dreams about this one guy....

he was formerly my boyfriend and we were in love...

but then he decided otherwise and it broke my heart...

we still talk and i see him more often now, he is a year older then me and our schools are separated intom two year things, so now i am back with him....

almost every other night i have a dream about him...

is there a meaning to these dreams?

Answer 1

To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.

To dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.  

To dream that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend, suggests that you need to let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth. You may have been putting up a wall or armor around you. You need to learn to trust people again.

To dream that you ex-boyfriend gives you a stuffed animal, suggests that you are seeking for reassuring and nurturing aspects of a relationship. This is not to imply that you want you ex-boyfriend back. Alternatively, the dream could represent some immature relationship which may (or may not) describe the relationship you had with your ex.

To dream that you see your ex-boyfriend dressed in a suit at a hospital, suggests that you have come to terms with that relationship and have completed the healing process.

Answer 2

ah no no..no reason for you to be together again nor a sign of your destiny (cinderella complex)..unless you make a move out of that dream...well dreams are like collections of your past experiences and your wild imagination..i think your missing this guy and you keep on thinking of him before sleeping that is why...or perhaps..you have unresolved issues and was'nt able to get over totally from the painful experience..so if there's nothing to go back..why feed the emotions?..you know that feelings is deceitful..don't be deceived again..otherwise you will never move on..

Answer 3

You likely have some unresolved feelings surrounding this guy.  Was he a first love (or first kiss, or first romantic partner)?  Any first will always hold a special place in your heart.  If you still love him, or if you never got over the anger you felt at his leaving, having him in your life again will bring these feelings to the surface.

Spend some time writing or meditating on your feelings to get to the root of how you now feel about him.  Once you've figured this out for yourself, try having a mature discussion with him in which you explain your feelings.  You'd be amazed at how such a simple act can allow you to release what you've been holding onto all this time.  

You wouldn't be having these dreams if there wasn't some unresolved feeling that his presence in your life is triggering.  If you don't feel comfortable confronting him directly, try writing a letter to him to say all the things you would have liked to have said.  Even if you never give it to him, this can be a cathartic experience.