I only liked to talk about normal things on chat lines does this meen i just want female friends here is?

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MY STORY

i have been calling this phone chat line and having calls with girls talking about s*x stuff and every-time i have talked about s*x things i have not liked it i just like talking about normal things i never like it when they talk in a s**y voice or about s*x at all i just like to talk to the girls about anything but s*x

there is one that was nice enough just to talk to me when she had the time to for free and she was not really suppose to do it but she was very nice

there was one time she talked to me for 30 minutes just about s*x and it felt like i had really wasted my time

all the times i have talked to her and others about normal things i felt like i really enjoyed it because it was not at all sexual

i have found that i do like to talk to other guys but with women i feel really close and not lonely

i always wish that life was still like when i was a kid and i did not know anything about s*x

i am looking for some girls to be Friends and spend time with

my question is do you think i just want female friends and not a girlfriend

i don't think i want a girlfriend

if you are wondering what i liked to talk about with the girls on the phone it was serial killers comics books like sherlock holmes horror books music people like freddy mercury and horror films

i do wish that i could lay my head in a girls lap and have her stroke my face to make me go to sleep it feels nice when i think about it and not sexual and at all i feel like i want that when i feel sad

and yes i am sure i am not g*y

to say that i must be g*y because i like being friends with girls is a narrow minded answer if i must say so myself

but i do like g*y people

Answer 1

Yeah, i agree with the people above me.

It sounds like you just want to have a chick friend that doesn't want to talk about s*x all the time. From a female's point of view that is a good thing to be able to talk to a guy that doesn't have s*x on his mind every time you talk to him. But chat lines are made to talk about s*x, so those are not your best chances. Right now I guess you only want female friends, but i am sure that when you find 'the one', if you believe in that, you will want more than just friends. But it is definitely not abnormal or anything because i know a lot of times i would rather be with guy friends, and a lot of times when being with my girl friends is better.

I dont know if this was what you were looking for but........

Answer 2

It sounds like u just want a female friend and if u don't want 2 talk about s*x then I suggest not 2 call that hot line anymore cuz that is what the hot line is 4 is 2 talk about s*x. and u know sumtimes it is much better 2 have a girl that is just a friend cuz idk it is a friendship that can last 4 years 2 come believe me I know. Getting a just friend girl will will be good 4 u :)

Answer 3

ok it simple you are one of the very few guys in the world that isn't totally obsessed with s*x s*x s*x! which is a good thing and you seem to prefer women friends more which isn't bad and it may not seem like you want a girlfriend but you do you just don't want it to be all about s*x which as i see most girls appreciate that and instead of calling chat lines call some friends that are girls and then you wont have to worry about all th s*x talk don't worry this isn't a weird thing its totally normal and to most people a good thing!!!