I only want to put 3 of my quadruplets up for adoption. What are the odds of the good one finding any others?

Question

I don't plan on telling the one I'm keeping.

Answer 1

wtf, why would you do something like that?!!?!?!? THEY have a right to know about there brothers/sisters. You would be lying right to your childs face, and once he/she find out.... he/she will resent you for the rest of your life.  Keep them all or put them all up for adoption( and make shure they know about each other)

Answer 2

Gosh, I feel sorry that you got so much hate mail. I've heard that a multiple birth like that can be difficult and perhaps sometimes some of children may be handicapped. Are all the children healthy ? Or perhaps you feel overwhelmed. I can't say that I blame you. I think they would want to find each other one day, and it may haunt you later, you may have regrets if you do put 3 up for adoption. I would try and keep them together, (it's more fun for them), They will like playing together. That keeps them occupied and entertained. I think the odds of the one finding the others are pretty good because they have all kinds of ways to do that now a days. Do you consider this to be good or bad if they found eachother? Do you want to avoid an emotionally awkward situation and not have the one child find the other 3? Or do you want the one child to be eventually be re united with his/her siblings?

Answer 3

the "good one"??? How do you know which one is good? I think you should keep all of them. Sure it will be hard, but I'm sure you'll be glad in the long run.

Answer 4

Why don't you put yourself up for adoption? That way you will be off yahoo answers!

Answer 5

"the good one?" What's with that? They're all good. I think if you are serious you should give all four up for adoption.

Answer 6

The "good one"?  What do you mean by that.  You indicate that you aren't going to tell the one you're keeping so how would he/she know of the others?  I'm confused.

Answer 7

You should be ashamed of yourself.

Answer 8

OMG you need help. The good one? What? So what, the other 3 are ugly ducklings? You need to get your sh*t straight sweetie. You brought those kids into the world TAKE CARE OF THEM or give them ALL up. Sounds like they'd be better off WITHOUT YOU. They aren't dogs, THEY ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!! Have some compassion!!!

Answer 9

you should get your tubes tied

Answer 10

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An Internet troll, or simply troll in Internet slang, is someone who intentionally posts messages about sensitive topics constructed to cause controversy in an online community such as an online discussion forum or USENET groups in order to bait users into responding.[1] They may also plant images and data on networks that others may find disturbing in order to cause confrontation.

Answer 11

Here is a saying "Anyone can be a mother to a child, however, it takes one harding working woman to be a 'mommy'."

Your a horrid *mother*!!! I would put them all up for adoption and then go kick yourself in the ***. You should have never had children.

Ur A Monster

Answer 12

I'm assuming this is a prank because the only way you could possibly be pregnant with quadruplets is if you took fertility drugs and I assume you did not get pregnant on purpose and then decide to put your children up for adoption. And if for some reason you are serious, there is no question that one of the most damaging things you could do is to deceive your child or children about their birth story.

Answer 13

Judging by your myspace profile you have a link to, you are a college student hype, looking for some fun.  Why don't you spend more time studying and less time trolling on Yahoo?  I'm sure your Mommy and Daddy would appreciate that, too.

Answer 14

is by chance the good one the white one?

Answer 15

IDIOT

Answer 16

i knowa good make believe family that would love to have your make believe quads. i can also give you a link for a shrink if you want to post your city. and please never have a real baby. get your tubes tied before you have the chance to replicate

Answer 17

I am not going to bother typing an answer.  Thanks for the two points anyway.

Answer 18

DISGUSTING.YOU ARE MENTALLY SICK.HOW CAN YOU THINK OF SOMETHING LIKE THIS.

Answer 19

For somebody working towards a master's degree you aren't exactly intelligent are you?  Congrats to you for upsetting as many people as you have.  I hope you think about these little things you do when something awful happens to you.

Answer 20

Please give up all four of your quads! People like you should not be parents. It's a shame that people who wish they had just one child can't and people who take the miracle of life (TIMES FOUR!!!) take it for granted. Get help please and give your children for adoption please!! Make them a favor by giving them deserving and loving parents.

Answer 21

Your kidding right!!!  I mean this must be some sorta joke!!!

If your are serious, then that is just disgraceful..!!  SHAME...!!!

SHAME!!!      SHAME!!!!!!!   QUADRUPLE...!!!!   SHAME!!!!!

Answer 22

The good one, I guess is the one your planning on keeping? I suppose if you don't tell him or her, he won't find out. But the other 3 could come looking but if they don't know about the one you kept, they would be looking for you. Can't help thinking this is very sad what you write. I hope you plan to see that the ones you give up, find good homes and hopefully together

Answer 23

I suggest you do just as you want to.  You have your reasons these people know nothing about about.

Just make it an "open adoption" so everyone knows about everyone else.

Communication is the best policy.

Answer 24

This is wrong on so many levels!  If you are being serious, please reconsider.  The siblings have the right to know the others exist and they should all be together if possible.  I so hope you are just being a jerk and posting this for fun.

Answer 25

gosh! ur so mean! keep all of ur kids u idiotic woman! gosh right now i'm really pissed off! how could someone actually do that? give ur own kids up for adoption? give me a break, woman!

Answer 26

That is so mean like how would the chosen kid feel, like guilty its whole life. keep em all.

Answer 27

"The GOOD ONE!"  Did you actually just say that?  You might want to re-think this one. Given, it would be very hard to raise all 4, but people would be willing to help out.  This is a gift, a blessing...try to see it that way.

Answer 28

why be so mean when you can have 4 adorable little children

Answer 29

it would be emotionally damaging to the children to separate them as they all feel connected to one another.  If this is a joke it is NOT funny at all, loser!

Answer 30

I dont think u can do that leagally.  I think it is all or none.  why keep just one and let the other babies go , i think u are being extrmely selffish and self absorbed.  which one are u going to keep the pretty one or the ugly one.  see how selfish that sounds.  i hope u lose all the kids...