I overheard coworkers talkin bad about me, what should I do?

Question

Okay,

I feel like i'm nice person and always try hard to do things the right way... Well I overheard these two girls talk bad about me and how slow I am, in the bathroom. It really hurt my feelings, what should I do?

Answer 1

Ignore them.  They are just jealous and insecure....  That's what people do when they are jealous of someone.  

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead...

To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves...

Answer 2

People will always talk, it just shows how ignorant they are.......they are insecure with there self, thats why they have to talk badly about other people....... Just ignore there stupidity and be a better person than they are......

Answer 3

I'm really sorry that happened to you.  It was pretty rotten of them to do that, especially without checking first that they were alone.  I would probably ignore it now.  They don't know that you were there, right?  Just consider the source, a couple of b!itchy girls with small minds talking behind your back...not worth another thought.  

If it ever happens again, though, I would walk out of the stall, holding my head high, and act like I didn't even notice they were there.  If one of them said something to me, I'd just stare right in her eyes for a second, maybe sneer a little bit, and then leave.  You don't have to worry about hurting their feelings.  They don't care about yours.

Answer 4

Nothing. As long as your boss or manager is happy then who cares. Being slow isn't necessarily a bad thing. I think in general we are far too much in a hurry.

I am always moving fast. Sometimes I get dizzy and irritable because I think it's ridiculous. Sometimes you need to but not always. I'm always moving fast.

Answer 5

Your slow in the bathroom?

Stop eating so much fiber.

Answer 6

It happens to us all from time to time.  Unfortunately people ae quick to judge when we don't do things exactly as they would. My feelings have been hurt more than once by thoughtless gossips. DO NOT confront them, as this may cause a lot of friction and your boss might think the situation is your fault.

  

Good luck!

Answer 7

Don't confront them. I think it's more effective is you just kind of mention certain things you heard in the conversation when you're around them. It will make them feel like c**p and keep wondering...Did she hear our conversation...OMG!  Like if they said you're lazy. Next time they talk about a project casually say, "oh me on the project, you know I'm pretty LAZY. But I'll get it done"

Answer 8

you cant do a dang thing, i reported this to my ADON and it only got worse for me to the point i had to quit my job,, be careful if you decided to let your boss know just a warning