I personally think my life sucks and i regret alot, help me out what do i do ..give me some ideas please

Question

im 18 years old ..i dont have a job, i dont have my lisence, i havent applied to college yet, my gf cheated on me about 3 months ago and i broke up with her after 3 years ..i loved her with every thing i had ...she broke my heart ..and now iv been havin a pretty good summer i guess , but its gettin boring ..i mean iv gotten out met some new people ..a couple new girls ..but i dont want a relationship for a loooooong time ...and my friends are becomming annoying ..and theres really not many parties any more ...i feel like a bum ..and i feel like i need something new in my life ..idk ..some one answer me ..

Answer 1

you have to change it all. Get a part time job to earn a bit of money on the side. APPLY FOR COLAGE! heard that it is the best 3-4 years of your life.

At collage you can start over and get new friends. You could go on trips with your mates, ive

you can change your life around if you really want to.

watch a documentary called 'the secrete' it will help you.

Im sure

good luck

you can do it

Answer 2

you need to get a job and stop bumming around theres more important things than parties. if you get a job you will meet new people and wont be so bored, you will have your own money so when you go out you can do better things. girls like men who are independant and mature so the girls you meet will be better as well

Answer 3

its all about time managment. If you spend time partying and wakin up late and layin around u prolly aint gonna find a job.  Just get up early print some resume's dress nice and apply any where you can.  Sorry bout your gf man. My ex made out with my friends girls and guys on our trip to my hometown for new years and found out she was messin around with some dude in vegas on her 21st bday.  Just do you do your thing not your friends and everything will be aight

Answer 4

First of all, life is what you make it, so if it sucks, its coz you are not doing anything to change that fact.

Secondly, those regrets are in the past, nothing can be changed and you cannot go back in time so learn not to think about things you cannot do anything about coz it will just ruin your life now.

Thirdly you are only 18 so there is still plenty of time to do more things, change what you can and live life like you want.

Start looking for a job and do not give up till you get one, get your license when you have the money to, apply for college, let go of your gf, obviously she wasnt the one for you and you should be glad you found out now rather than EVEN later.

You do not need another gf especially if you are still grieving so give that a break for a while and focus on getting a job and your studies.

If your friends are annoying you, tell them, they might not know they are.

If there are no parties, have one yourself.

Hope that helps. If you are still depressed perhaps get a doctor to refer you to someone that can help depression.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Most of all the answers you have received, are pretty good, basically they what you need is motivation to do something.

but try college first, then a job and in one of those you will find more friends that will invite you to parties.

Answer 7

Get out and find a job,this will raise your self esteem and give you some pride in yourself.Next start exercising it too helps raise your self esteem.And even a guy working at McD's has some thing over you;money.so yes you can do it.if you're still feeling blue after this seek professional counseling

Answer 8

You sound depressed, and Im sorry to hear that. Don't feel too down though, your life will get better ahead of time; if you let it.

Answer 9

You are chest deep in sorrows and it's raining.  First thing you need to do is stop your downward thinking.  If you are upset you don't have a job then go get one.  If you aren't qualified for much then get a job as a cashier.  Go get your licence if it means that much to you.  It's not the end of the world if you don't have it.  You don't have to apply to college and you don't even have to go.  You can take a year off from school and just work.  It doesn't matter where you work as long as you can find something to enjoy about it.  So your girlfriend cheated.  You broke up with her.  You did the right thing.  Sure she broke your heart but you'll get over it and you will date again.  Not all girls are the same.   Unless your friends have done some sort of huge change to make you find them annoying, I'd say you aren't happy with yourself so you can't possibly be happy with them.   If you want to be more into the party scene, throw a party yourself.  You stay wake all night because you can't clear your mind.  You should try laying in bed and just focusing on breathing.  If you think about that and I mean really focus on it then you won't think about everything else.  You sleep till 4 because you went to bed late.  Your whole routine is screwed up.  My ex would stay up till 3-4 am and then complain about how late he would sleep during the day.  If you have a job then you have a purpose.  That job will require you to have a regular sleeping routine.  You feel like a bum because you don't do anything.  Again, a job will fix that.  You would feel like you need something new in your life because you aren't happy with the way you are leading your life right now.  Life is what you make it.  It's how you choose to look at it.  It's like the stupid saying "do you see the cup half full or half empty".

Answer 10

try church/God

Answer 11

That all sucks but if you want to change things your gonna have to do it, no one can do it for you. So if you want a job go get one apply earlier in the day, dress for it.

The whole license thing sucks and you cant really do anything about that but you can work around it.

About college, I didn't apply till the last week of high school and i didn't start till October, and some schools have a last start. So you could still get in.

The girlfriend thing I'm sorry i don't really know what to tell you. Everyone has a different way of dealing with issues. She just might not have been the one for you. It might seem like she is now but if she was she wouldn't have cheated on you. There will be many other girls. The main thing is you have to find a way to get her off of your mind. Try doing something new and different. If ya'll went to the movies a lot try going to a play or something that is totally different from what ya'll would do together. If you go somewhere new you might even meet new people that aren't annoying like your friends are getting. New things are never boring... unless its just stupid.