I plan on proposing to my boyfriend. Im taking him out to dinner but would like ideas on how to ask him?

Question

I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and i know i want to spend the rest of my life with him. I'm going to take him out for dinner to propose but i am unsure on how would be best to ask him. I dont want to go down on one knee but i would still like it to be romantic. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

what about  by  while u r making love with him to  suprise him with a ring(simbolic one) in your panties and letting him know it belongs to him...now and forever if he wants... Is funny and always can make a laught at if it is going bad.:)  

Answer 2

I don't know what kind of guy your bf is, but many men think wouldn't feel right if they were not doing the asking. It is there job to propose, not the woman's.

Answer 3

I'm so glad you asked this question because I think I may end up proposing to boyfriend. Dinner sounds great. Whatever you do, think about what he would find romantic. I guess it wouldn't hurt to ask him. Beware -- you may find yourself proposing in a stadium! Any way, best of luck! Email me and tell me how it turns out.

Answer 4

you have to wait until he proposes you....i think that's better, if he want to marry you he will propose you ,otherwise he will not.

Answer 5

I wouldn't propose to him if I were you. Men like to have the control of those things and unless he is really different form most men, I can't see things going well. You can still do something special to let him know how much you love him. Cluadaugh rings are beautiful and show commitment to one another. Have a nice candle light dinner at home, Make his favorite foods, dress in his favorite color, and give him the ring, telling him how much you love him and that the ring is a symbol of how you feel. Let him take it from there.

Answer 6

You better let him propose, it is tradition that the man is the one that asks. Let him feel like the man in the relationship.

Answer 7

You go girl , i love women proposing to men , it's so flattering , he will be so happy you toke control and did it  , guys love women doing the first move .

all the people told you not to ask him are just old fashioned.

and for your question , you should say : (you can also write what you want to say on a note and read it to him) you know i'v been thinking of this for along time now and i love you with all my heart and want to spend the rest of my life with you , will you grow old with me and be my husband ?

he will say yes for sure ! ! !

Answer 8

Put the ring on the breadstick and then offer him a breadstick......but be careful if he is not a breadstick kinda guy =P

Answer 9

First of all, make sure he's the kind of guy who's OK with a girl doing the proposing.  Some guys are fine with it, but a lot of men prefer to be the one to propose.  Think of it this way- you know how you dream about the moment when you'll walk down the aisle in your wedding gown, with all eyes on you?  Well, for a guy, proposing is their moment in the spotlight, and lots of them spend lots of time thinking about how they'll propose someday, so you don't want to take that moment away from them by proposing first.

Answer 10

Are you kidding?  Stop acting so desperate.  I would not propose to your boyfriend...It will only make him feel very uncomfortable and embarrassed.  Proposing is for a man to do..not a desperate woman.  Stop it!  Don't worry, if he loves you, he will eventually ask you, but you jumping the gun and putting him on the spot, will only change his feelings about you.  He will feel trapped and maybe break it off with you.  Forget this idea, it is rediculous.  

Answer 11

Take him to some kind of sporting even that he likes like racing, baseball, whatever and have them put it up on the scoreboard like in Anger Management!  Guys don't like too much girliness, and that would be more geared towards a man's interests.

Answer 12

i would just let him purpose. he might be a little weirded out if you do it. plus, what if he wants to do it? if you know he wouldnt mind than go ahead and do what you want. it's you purposel and you should do it the way you want to do it. take him to the place you first met and pop the question there or maybe just make him a romantic dinner at home? whatever you do i'm sure he'll be thrilled. you obviously know him better than any of us so do what you think he'd like.

Answer 13

I wouldn't do it. I know no one is going to like this answer and say i'm sexist and that is ok. But I think if a man wants to get married he would ask the woman and if he hasn't asked you yet, he either isn't ready or he might be planning on how to ask you and you ruin it! I know it is old fashioned, but I think the man is showing a woman that he is ready by making the commitment of buying the ring and thinking of a neat creative way to propose. What's your hurry?

Answer 14

Best do it in private. It will be h**l of an embarrassing in public if he says no.

Answer 15

a friend of mine proposed at a restaurant by having "will you marry me" printed on a plate and having the restaurant serve the meal on that plate! They have been happily married for years now! :o)

Answer 16

i think you shouldnt do it at te restauraunt do it back at yourplace in private just incase and dress up really s**y

Answer 17

um arent men suppose to propose to women?

Answer 18

Yeahh.... ummm. I tried the whole proposing to him thing and it backfired on my and I was crushed.. he loved me but wasn't ready for that and thought it was wrong that I asked.. It was about 2 years later when he proposed and we are happily married now but my suggestion would be to let him do it ... if you are going to do it don't make it a proposal that you would want that is too girly so incorporate guy stuff into your proposal.