I play Varsity Vball, my Boyfriend said he would dump me if i still play. what should i do?

Question

my boyfriend hates volleyball and he said he would break up with me if i keep playing. what should i do???????

Answer 1

Dumb him, If he is putting selfish and unreasonable demands on you now, it will only get worse.

He is a self-centered, immature boy.

Wait until you find a more mature person to be friends with.

Answer 2

I think if your boyfriend would break up with you for doing something you love he doesn't deserve you anyways..

Move on.

Answer 3

Tell the mother f er to go f himself and get a new boyfriend! What kind of a hole says that? Is that the kind of douche bag you want to be with? Tell him to f off and that you deserve better!

Answer 4

In volleyball world, a good play against "dump" would be "block".

Try get him involved, and see whether he would become more interested in playing with you when you are not playing with your team. If he is still so stubborn, block him.

Answer 5

if you love volleyball, someone you love shouldnt tell you to quit something like that. maybe hes not the one for you

Answer 6

pain is temporary pride is forever

Answer 7

If your boyfriend is planning on breaking up with you just because you're playing a game he doesn't like, is, in my opinion, a very dumb decision. If you enjoy playing it you should keep playing, no matter what he says.

Answer 8

Anyone who doesn't love you for who you are (boyfriend, friend, or whoever) doesn't really love.  You need to realize that now.  If it is volleyball now, it will only be something else later.  This is how it starts when someone begins to control you.  They start with small things.  ONce they have that power, they slowly move to something else.  Don't let this happen to you.  Take a stand and show everyone that you will not allow yourself to be treated so poorly.  Don't wait for him to dump you, break up with him.  Tell him that you do not want to be with someone who wants to take simple pleasures away.  Tell him someone who loves you would want you to do the things that make you happy, so long as those things are not healthy.  Tell him that it is not healthy for him to try to control someone he loves and that you deserve better.  You do.  You deserve someone who wants you to be happy and live the best life you can possibly live.

Answer 9

he is NOT worth your while! if he cant understand your passion for volleyball and your talent for it..you should dump him.! this maybe a sign that he is WAY to clingy and what let you do your own thing......and at least some independence from your boyfriend is good! Remember boys come and go but volleyball will be there for you forever!

Answer 10

play your game girl...

Answer 11

forget him. if you like volleyball dump him before he has the chance to dump you. any guy who doesnt support what you love doing isnt right for you

Answer 12

Break up with him first cuz trust me that is not the kind of guy you want!!!  He is over controling and he will try to control your life and then somehow you die.  Don't laugh cuz it acually happened to people i know!!!!!!  If you like volleyball then stick with you should never quit your dream for a guy!  If he truly loves and respects you he wouldn't be doing this at all trust me!  And since you are in varsity that means you are good at vollyball and you might even get a schollarship!  So don't waste going to a good school for a guy!  So dump him ASAP cuz you do not want that kind of relationships!!!  Trust me!!!!!!  

Also have fun playing Volleyball!!!!!!!  Cuz i always do!!!!!!

Answer 13

Your boyfriend needs to get a clue.  This is no longer the age where men drag their women around by their hair.

Dont give up playing Volleyball just because he doesn't like it.  It is not fair nor right.  If you are not enjoying it, then do it.  But if you do and you are good, you could be passing up future opportunities - like scholarships to college.

It appears that your bfriend is jealous, insecure and not supportive.  If he is carrying these traits now, is it really necessary to stay in a relationship?  And another thing, once you conceed to this, what else is he going to want you to give up - your friends, hobbies, style, opinions and everything else?  That is not being an individual or fair to yourself.  Dont sell yourself for a relationship.

Answer 14

first oh all, if he really likes you than he would not care if you played it or not. Its not like you're making him come to your games! If he doesnt support what you like to do than he isnt a very good boyfriend and probably thinks its all about him.

Do what you want, if you want to play volleyball dont let him stop you

Answer 15

I'd say keep playing. That helps out towards your future more than he does. :)

Answer 16

keep playin and dump contol freek even if u quit. If u were strippin i could see his point but volleyball he is on another planet run for the hills

Answer 17

Your boyfriend is really shallow.  He obviously is only thinking about himself.  Does he really care for you?  No.  He doesn't want you to play volleyball because he doesn't like it.  Well, you know what?  Tough!!  You play ball because you like and you're good at it.  You're playing it, not him.  I don't remember him trying out for the team.  Thefefore, he needs to keep his mouth shut and support his girlfriend in whatever she does.  Whether it be volleyball or chess, he needs to support his loved ones.  And if he continues to give you ultimatums like this, then you give him one back..."I play or you ain't gettin any".  Let's attack his interests.  

What's next?  "if you don't stop watching this TV show, I'll break up with you".  He's trying to control you.  Well, he can continue to control you from the sideline cause you shouldn't quit because of him.  It's a ridiculous thing to even consider.  That's easy.  I'm not saying for you to pick volleyball over your boyfriend.  I'm saying that he needs to be more of a boyfriend instead of an ******.

Answer 18

Think about your future...which would you rather have in your future?  VBall or your BF?

Answer 19

You should dump him. If he's not cool with something that you enjoy, he's not worth your time.

Answer 20

Oh no he didn't! Kick dat foo out da curb girl!

Answer 21

If he can't respected and accepted the fact that you love to play volleyball and wants to play volleyball then hes not worth it. You need a boy that will do anything to be your everything!: )

Hope that helps! : )

Answer 22

depends what u love more.

Answer 23

do u luv him?!..

wat a guy?!..

if u luv the sport go for it..

and if he breaks up u just find another better guy..

ormaybe choose the guy that play volleyball..

his g*y..

Answer 24

You need to dump your boyfriend, he seems pretty controlling and selfish. Can you imagine what he'll be like in the future if he's threatening to break up with you now because of a school sport?

Answer 25

if he don't like the things you like and enjoy doing than dump him he's not worth it if he will dump you just because you like volleyball

Answer 26

If he loved you he wouldn't care what you do. If he is even saying that you ave to choose then he isn't worth your time. Your boyfriend should love you for you and not care what you do!

Answer 27

dump him

Answer 28

Chances are that you will be playing volleyball longer than he would be around.  He is being selfish to put his wants and desires before yours.  If he does not understand your love for the game, say good bye.  

That is a t-shirt slogan I have seen.  The front of the shirt says what you said.  "My boyfriend says that it is volleyball or him."  And the back says "I will sure miss him."  Check it out.

http://www.attitudearcade.com/pd_success...

Answer 29

Tell your boyfriend good riddance!

Who needs him? You have your team, and being an athlete makes you ten times more attractive to other guys.

Answer 30

Dump him... if he can't support you in something you like to do then its not worth your time.  I had a boyfriend who hated football but since I was a cheerleader he still came to support me and watch me do something I loved same with me I disliked Wrestling but I went and watched him anyways to support him.  If you love volleyball and enjoy it stick with it because if you don't you might regret it later in life.

Answer 31

PLAY!!! otherwise you will regret it and wish you had of played anyway... What else will he decide to break up with you over??? Shopping???