I play on a nationals volleyball team. We have two tournament left and since jan. i have about 3 team mates?

Question

that used to to be my friends. now all the do is make fun of me is snicker and talk behind my back so that I'll miss what ever it happenes to be what im doin. I have seriously considered quiting because I am getting no respect from them whats so ever, and wether were friends or not, I dont think that it is to much to ask for respect for my team mates. Am i being to harsh? Should i say any thing to them? If so what? please answer ASAP!

Answer 1

I think you should just ignore them and focus on volleyball.

It's really hard to change other people.  Since they're still your teammates, avoid making any kind of awkard situation.

Whatever happens, you shouldn't quit because of other people's behaviour.

Answer 2

you have a few choices. you can talk to them and tell them to stop talking behind your back. or you can just ignore it and just focus on volleyball. or if you really want to, talk to your coach about it so he/she may help you guys settle whatever the issue is.

Answer 3

Don't let them get to you. Just play your best and show them what you are made up. The team i play they i also have a few people that trash talk me but that's mostly because they are jealous. If i were you just play ur best , play for the love of volleyball, but i think you should talk to ur team mates because volleyball is a team sport and you need to communicate with each other on the court..if you guys can communicate on the court and not talk ur problems out off the court then just play volleyball. The key thing is ..you are all there to win so mite as well let w.e happens in practice or w.e stay off the court during a game and just play the game and remember its just two more tournaments..

Good luck with the rest of ur season.