I play volleyball, and this girl on the team i think hates me?? but not for sure though?

Question

Most of my buddies went on to High School v-ball but i stayed down and now i am regeting or however you spell it....

because the other girls verly talk to me... only during volleyball stuff like games and practice. but they never talk to me when boys are around... Y?

and one other girl (there are 2) hardly says anything, but lets me hang out with her and idk i feel like i want a friend that is MY AGE AND I CAN TALK TO.... and won't just hate me....

sorry i watsed your time....

i'll get to the point..

Do you think they hate me???

Answer 1

They're just jealous because your older...s***w em!!  Just be yourself and you'll make friends eventually.

Answer 2

i'm pretty sure that they dont hate you. but you cant always expect them to talk to you first. you should at least make yourself become more noticed. at first when i started out the season, i hated a lot of girls on my team because we barely knew eachother. and after our first game , which was also our first loss, we became closer. and we all got to know eachother more. i think playing in a game brings you closer. especially if you lose.

BUT ANYWAYS...

they probably dont hate you, they probably just dont know you well . so get to know them before tensions rise.

Answer 3

Who cares? I know that's easy for me to say but you just be you and don't worry about what they think. In 6 months this won't even matter.

Answer 4

I don't think they hate you - I think that they have simply grown closer together as a group.  Think about it; when you spend a lot of time with a person/people you become considerably closer.  The probably don't even know how you feel because they don't notice that they have become better friends.

Answer 5

i dont think they hate you. i dont know much about your situation but maybe yall dont have too much in common or you may be be somebody she likes hanging aroung. i guessing they are older so maybe thats it. just keep your head up and have fun God Bless