I posted this once...but didn't get many answers...please help =]?

Question

k so there's this guy named tucker that i hooked up with this summer [[he fingered me, no s*x.]] the first day that i met him. bad i know. but a week after that i heard from his friends that he liked me. i like him to but the problem is that he also liked this other girl named rachelle. she's not hot or s**y...she's totally cute. and such a sweetheart. i don't know her very well but i've met her before and i wouldn't ever want to steal a guy from her or anything like that. so...my question is should i go after him or wait to see who he goes after...he doesn't know that i like him and i kinda don't want to tell him if he decides he likes her more.....oh and i'm pretty sure she doesn't like him....but not posative....please help though. =/

Answer 1

ok........id go after him but not like im yours/stalker......um b more flirty.....um i cant really help u but im doin my best......i think thats all i have to say. im so sorry i cant help u nemore than that...   :\

Answer 2

He sounds pretty bad, but just follow your heart. Honestly, think about it. If he was meant 4 u, he will ask you out and go 4 u, but I say, just go with the flow and wait and see. Also, if he does chose you, be carful, and dont go 2 fast.

Answer 3

you should tell him that you like him too but you cant be with him knowing his feelings for other girls and he has to decide

Answer 4

im sorry but kinda sounds like a playa trust me ive had my fare share of them hes prob using the same lines on you as he is on the other girl

but yeah id wait and see who he picks and flirt alot with him so he gets the idea that your into him

Answer 5

just let him know you are there for him....let him come to you!! If you go to him it will make you look desperate!!

Answer 6

dang he probable only wants to get with you cuz your easy..! letting a guy finger you the first time you meet him..you might have well just had s*x with him.. its the same thing..! .. Poor girl try keeping your pants on ..!

Answer 7

GO AFTER HIM! If he likes you and you like him, just do it alreadi!!!  

Answer 8

Sorry hon, you're on the wrong board. Bring this to the relationship forum, not the Beauty & Style one.

Answer 9

This guy seems untrustable. Denial is the 1st step to acceptance. Some guys are lying jerks who will play with a girl and make her believe anything. He seems disrespectufl and only looking for a good time. Don't be his bootycall. I would suggest going for a better guy. Good luck

Answer 10

maybe people aren't answering because it's in the wrong section. i think you should go after him btw. i don't even get what your dilemma is

Answer 11

Go for him, but be careful because if he decides he doesn't like "hot or s**y" better than "cute" then be prepared to be dumped. Guys change their minds a lot - trust me.

Good luck!! =D

-Jazzi-