I promised my vajj to him !!!!!!!!!!?

Question

So I have a big problem ive know thus guy since 5th grade and he say he's liked me since 6th and now I'm 14 and he's 15 and his parents been going through soo much that I said u could your whole family to my house til things got straightend out well he asked me out and I told him no and then he got another girlfriend the next day ( he's a player which is why my bestfriends one who liked and one who went out him says I shouldn't go out him besides they said it was okay if went out with and yes they meant meant) but anyways they had s*x on there third day going out more than once well I promised him my virginaty bcuz I feel good around him like nothing in the world could happen to me well he's coming back Tuesday to my school and I need help

Ps. He's tha type were we could stay friends even after a bad break up

Answer 1

Never promise your virginity to anyone.  Especially if he doesn't deserve it.  This guy is playing around way too much, and you don't have to keep a promise you didn't mean.  

Spend more time with your friends, and get away from him for a while.  This guy sounds like big trouble, and will drag you down with him.  Good luck.

Answer 2

don't lose your virginity to a player.