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Question

Have you ever found out something on GOOGLE?

So i decided to google my sister in law...

found out shes on this site and shes available for dating..

and shes still married to my brother how would you handle this?

Plus she has a picture up of her in underwear thongs.lol

I wouldnt care if she was single but since shes suppose to be a mother to my nephews and neices and married to my brother i have a problem with it.lol

would you tell him??

have you ever found out anything you didnt want to know from the internet?

yes it is my sister in law.The men who have left messages even know her kids names...so no doubt in my mind.one guy asked about her youngest.these are NOT men from our hometown.

Answer 1

i wouldn't run to your brother and make accusations because no one can take these sorta things calmly, and he might blow up on his wife.  i would suggest that you don't go telling your family and relatives because technically, this is between your brother and his wife.  telling more people will just escalate the situation.  

i think you need to confront your sister-in-law.  tell her that you came upon this and that you're concerned about it.  you've got rights to be concerned because you love your brother and you wouldn't want anybody to hurt him.  you should talk to her even though she might give you some lame excuses.  if she loves your brother and her family, she'll get scared that you will tell your brother and this might be enough to make her stop what she is doing. this is something she will have to work out with your brother.  you've done your job if you confront her and let her know that you don't want to see your brother get hurt or see the family breaking apart for the sake of the kids.

Answer 2

That is not cool  or safe   There are alot of guys out there who take the picture the wrong way  Talk to her about it  What she is doing is very dangerous to your nephew and her self  If she will not listen show you brother You sister in law need help

Answer 3

Confront her about it, don't tell your brother, give your sister in law a chance to close that account. Everyone is entitled to make one mistake, no one is perfect after all.

Good Luck.X :-)

Answer 4

I'd stay out of it. Unless you have concrete evidence that she is cheating, don't stir up any trouble.  

Answer 5

It would be a little uncomfortable taking to your brother about this.

Talk to your mom,let her talk to her husband(your dad) and let him talk to your bro.If you were a male you could go and talk to him directly.

In simple-FOLLOW YOUR HEART

Answer 6

  I would forward it to your brother.  Let him decide what he wants to do about it from there.  I would be more concerned with the fact that she is giving out info about the children on an adult web-site.  That is very dangerous and needs to be addressed.  Your brother needs to know so don't feel guilty, you don't even have to let him know that you are the one who sent it to him.  That is up to you.  Just think how bad you would feel if you let it go and totally ignored it, then something happened to one of the children.  You would never forgive yourself.