I quit everything and i change my mind fast .What to do?

Question

I really fast lose interest in things i do.Like i played basketball for some time and I quitted ,I wanted to create websites and i quitted, a list can go on and on.I just want one thing that I will love, so I can really know who i am.I'm gonna finish highschool soon and i still don't know what to do in life.Do anyone know how i feel?I just feel like I will never find something I love to do,and I will always change my mind :S I know I'm not organized , do you think that is my problem.I just can't follow a plan :( It gets me really depressed and bored not knowing what to do. (ps: Sry if my grammar is bad, and I'm 18 btw )

Answer 1

There are plenty of people who feel the same way you do so don't get bummed out by it- its totally normal to feel pressured into making a life-altering decision between high school and college. And you know what? It takes a while for most people to really discover their true passion, so take a breath and remember that you're young and have a lot of time to figure things out. Sit down and think about the things that makes you really happy or something that you're naturally gifted at- from playing a sport to custom building a car to writing a song, whatever makes you feel accomplished and successful and proud of yourself. Think about how you could turn that into a career, and you can turn almost anything into a career. If you like riding your dirtbike, why not consider a career as a professional motocrosser or a stunt double? If you enjoy baking cookies, try working in a bakery to learn different recipes and techniques. If you like watcing movies, you could become a movie critic for you local newspaper or direct your own films. It may sound lofty but when you find soemthing you really love doing, you'll find the career path is laid out in front of you. Its doing something you hate that traps most of us. And there's no harm in taking a year or two to experiment and try a lot of interesting things to find what you really enjoy, so keep doing what you have been and I'm sure you'll find your true passion in no time! Good luck!

Answer 2

I'M SO happy u posted this question, I totally understand how you feel, I tend to get bored very easily and quit too, i mean I love A LOT of things, but you gotta keep me entertained otherwise I quit. My mom calls me a quitter all the time and says its because i don't wanna make efforts,... that is so not true! I just get bored or lose interest or realize I don't like it! Yeah, I don't know either what to do with my life, I was suppose to go to college, but I got a challenging job that I really like. I don't wanna say something too crazy but, maybe think about joining the army, if you don't know what to do with your life maybe that's an option. Plus you get many advantages. If your are like me, you just need something that gives you strong sensations and school probably annoys you a lot, so yeah army my friend! Sorry I can't really help you but I'm happy to that you posted the question.

xx

Answer 3

I'm like that about half of the time(:

but I've found it easier to just turn off everything & focus on what I'm doing.

I also made a list and whatever doesn't interest me I cross it out. Whenever I find something I love to do I Put a red circle around it.

I know it sounds stupid but it keeps me motivated.

It could also be the people around you, surround yourself with positive people.

there's more but yeah...