I"M kind of looking to TRY someone outside my Race...Is that a bad Idea?

Question

I have always been attracted to Black guys Only and i'm still attracted to them..but I do not want to limit myself...I broke up with my Ex 3 months ago..I have been introduced to new and different Night spots by my colleagues and I have seen some good looking white men...

I don't think I will have a problem at all getting a white man, if I want him...That I know for sure..the question is:

Do you think it's a good idea??..Should i stick to my own race??..

For those who date white guys...What are some of the pluses about white guys...

What I'm about to say may offend some of you, please forgive me..You know what most of us black girls have been told about white men (you know the small D**ks things, can't last longer and all that stupid staff)...BUT I'm still curious, though also fear being disappointed...

Can any white men reassure me that those stories are NOT True.

PLEASE some of you..do NOT tell me..."why does it have to be about race"..I do not want to hear that...

If the race issue bothers you just skip this question..

ALL I KEEP hearing from my friends is that white men are just good as friends when it comes to black women. They say that white men will akways disappoint in bed....

I want to try them though

Answer 1

you seem like a smart sista ,why youy gotta bring up those stereotypes  a wise woman once enlightened me when she wrote , the largest s*x organ is between your ears......take dat to the bank

Answer 2

The whole size thing is a myth. I will try and look for the data proving neither race has a typically bigger p***s. It has been awhile since I have read it, can you believe someone actually did a study on it? :) As far as lasting in bed, I think that also depends on the guy you're with.  

Answer 3

it can end up any way you want.  i'm a white guy and one of my best friends is puerto rican, he married my sister's friend and now they have a cute kid.  

there are lots of other factors besides race.  frankly i think that any kind of multi-racial situation is kinky from a sexual perspective.  i like kinky.

Answer 4

Looking for someone based on their color is wrong. You get to know people for who they are, how they treat you and make you feel. I've dated many colors of the rainbow :) and found that each man, even of the same race, was different. Some were good guys some weren't, but to base anything on their color is wrong. Good luck!  

Answer 5

And you may be offended as well but a large majority of the black women that I know find white men more attractive because they treat their wives or girlfriends much better than the black men they've come in contact with.

Granted there are always exceptions to the rule but one women told me she dates strictly white males because all too many of the men of her race have been arrested or involved in some type of domestic violence situation with the mothers of their children.

So there you have it from the other side of the coin.

Naturally you'll base your decisions on your own personal experience. And what better teacher is there than that?

And this 'size' thing? My dear...if you base what you're looking for in a man solely on the size of his crank then you're in for a bad relationship. Besides....the black guys I know won't even entertain the idea of placing their lips and tongue anywhere between your thighs. Not so with white guys.

there's always an up side to everything you know. Good luck in your quest and have fun. You just may find yourself hooked.

Answer 6

No it is not a bad Idea...I have dated outside my race every since I came to know what dating was....And now I am married outside my race and I have a beautiful wife and a beautiful life with beautiful children as well....  

Answer 7

ok..cool...is nice to give a try ..and know about us guys from different race...as for me I am open minded ..and don't see anything wrong

on ..or about inter-racial dating..how ever I do know ..that for such

relationship to work out...it requires a high level of maturity from couple..otherwise it will just not..work....so..call me..ok..

Answer 8

Having dated from many cultures and ethnicities, I can tell you that there are frogs and princes in every group of people. Most of my married friends are mixed couples in some way or other - racial (inc. 1 couple with black husband/white wife, 1 couple with white husband/black wife), cultural, religious etc. - and have been happily married and "satisfied" in every way for many years. Don't let stereotypes hold you back from finding true love and an excellent mate. Dare to have your expectations exceeded beyond your wildest dreams.  

Answer 9

Are you a matture adult? I'm asking because you are asking an extremely ignorant question. Being good in bed doesn't depend on race (yes I know on my personal experience) and no, size of the p***s doesn't depend on the race (are you 13???)

Answer 10

Those stereotypes don't hold true for me.  My first relationship was with a black guy.  I lost my virginity to him.  YES his dingaling was big but I hated it.  Too big actually.  I'm not sure what size you're used to but that was not fun for me.  I was so naive that I figured s*x must just be boring because he was not at all good in bed.  When I got out of that relationship I was shocked to find out that s*x actually WAS fun.  He was selfish & demanding.

I pretty much dated white guys after that with the exception of one Latin guy & ONCE AGAIN the stereotype didn't hold up there.  Not a passionate guy, not good in bed at all.  The white guys have actually been the best.  They weren't huge but average.  At least they were attentive.  I'm married now so let's hope my husband doesn't see this response :-)

You'll just have to try it out.  When you talk about size that's really a personal fit.  I'm small "down there" so I don't like big guys & I don't enjoy painful s*x.  You might need a different fit than me.

Answer 11

White men do not have smaller ones than black men and just based on my experience white men last longer, although I do think both just depend on the person.  I don't see any pattern to size or stamina.

I think it is fine if you want to date a white guy.  Once you get past the cultural and language differences you will see they are the same as black guys.

Answer 12

its just a saying about white guys.i have been into a relationship with a black and a white guy.

My black guy wasnt that " big" like they used to say about black and my ex white bf was really big and good contrary to what they say about you..

so its nothing to do with race.different people different strokes.

Answer 13

This is just silly.  White men are no different in bed than black men.  And size doesn't have to do with race....it's like anything else...it's just genetics.  If there was a difference...it wouldn't matter...it's what you do with what you got that counts.  

Answer 14

This white guy married a black women never disapointed her in bed.

Answer 15

Why does it matter? Life's short, go get you some white love.

Sincerely,

A fellow cracker who doesn't disappoint  

Answer 16

I've dated both. I'm going to tell you, I've dated some whites and blacks that rocked my world and others that have been total disapointments. Are all whites small? Oh h**l no. But some can be. I'm going to say its on an individual basis really. I wouldn't catagorize it as race but on an individual basis.