I read alot of questions from women who are not happy in their married life, If you could know you would be ?

Question

happy married to someone else, have all you need and he would treat you as you deserve and love you like no one ever has, if there was a way to have the happy life and marriage would you do it even if you knew about the new husband being an at home in private Crossdresser ? Would you compromise or learn to accept it in exchange for a happy life and marriage

Answer 1

whats your problem with him being a crossdresser? If you truly love someone, you accept every part of them...my ex boyfriend loved to wear lingerie while we were in bed together. Don't be so judgemental.

Answer 2

I have been married for 16 years to an Army man, and he is the most wonderful, caring, loving man ever!!!

I have everything I want and need in our marriage, a beautiful daughter, and a wonderful house and where we live, I would not trade it for anything in the whole wide world.

It took us a lot and many years to get to where we are now, we had our problems and many bridges to cross, but it was and still is our love for eachother that makes every day waking up to him and seeing my daughter a blessing!!!!!

Answer 3

no i couldnt  

Answer 4

I personally would not marry a crossdresser.  But some women do.  The real question is . . . were they told before the marriage or after?  If I married someone who withheld this information until after the wedding, I would not trust them, consequently resulting in a divorce.  It is all about trust and disclosure.  

Answer 5

No because I would see him as g*y.  To me real men don't do such things.

Answer 6

a Crossdresser is such a strong word !!!

can't live with a guy like that no

Answer 7

I think it's kind of s**y, and I wouldn't have any problem with it.

Answer 8

I think it depends on the man and how the woman sees him before he dresses up. Does she find him atractive, strong and masculine? Does she feel confident in him? If not, then she would never see him as man who is strong enough to make her feel secure and safe. But if she does...and she falls in love, then she most likely could accept it. Real strong love that is true though...would overcome the obstacle without a problem, When you love somebody completely...you can endure anything.

Answer 9

It really depends on the woman.  There are plenty of women that would say no-way-no-how to marrying a crossdresser, regardless of how open their potential husband is with it.  Others will accept it to a greater or lesser degree, while there are some women who would totally dig having a crossdresser for a husband.  However, most any woman despises secrets and dishonesty, regardless of how they would feel about their husband/boyfriend crossdressing.  The key for a crossdresser to have a successful relationship with a woman is to be open and honest with his partner about his dressing.

As a crossdresser myself, I know that coming out to a woman who is a romantic interest is never easy and very nerve wracking, but it must be done to see if the woman is a right fit.  I have faced flat out rejection to acceptance to overjoy when I've given that speech, but in the long run I knew I had to do it.  One does not have to come out when he's merely dating somebody, but I say it's a must whenever you know the relationship is getting serious.

Answer 10

If you have to compromise and learn to accept a behavior that you wouldn't normally accept, than are you truly in a happy marriage? Wouldn't a happy marriage where one loves you like no one ever has and treats you better than you treat yourself, be an unconditional love that doesn't have to learn to accept? Could you learn to accept a drug addiction because when he is not on drugs he is the most delightful human being on the planet? It is very rare that any relationship is 100% good and happy 100% of the time. And all relationships take compromise and communication to work. So if you are happy with everything about the man you would look past what clothes they put on.