I really don't know what to do? ?

Question

my last boyfriend i really really loved but i knew he still loved his ex girlfriend, without relising i started acting like i thought she was like, now that i look at it it isn't really a healthy thing i did...

Now i have a new boyfriend and i know he likes me a lot, but i am sort of friends with his ex and i have always looked up to her heaps..

i feel really inferior right now, and as a kid i looked up to my big sister and have copied someone alll my life..

How do i brake this life long habit?

Answer 1

I myself have done that, where I have copied someone else to just play it safe. But I simply just broke my habit by doing my own thing. And you know that its your own thing because it just feels right, like if your in love. I believe in love at first sight and I think just recently it happened to me, but I am scared to believe it. So doing your own thing could be writing songs, playing an instrument. But dont change yourself for anyone. Do your own thing and impress him with your talent, one that no one else has. I used to believe I had no talents, but then I started writing songs and they were really good! Sometimes you have to try everything to get to where you have to be.  

Answer 2

Before you can be in a true relationship, you have to figure out who YOU are. Until you do, you will be susceptible to imitating whoever you look up to, or trying to change yourself to fit in with whoever you're around. My suggestion would be to put ALL romantic relationships on hold and figure out who YOU are, and try to be like you, not anyone else.  

Answer 3

u mean u look at other girls and try being like them.. u kno wat u r not actually coping, Kristy u r comparing urself to others..

but let me tell u one thing, u r unique and so r others ,no one is same, we all have good qualities within us ,,and we should appretiate those qualities rather than trying to be like others,,

and more over think this way, ur Bf likes u for what u r, so why be like his Ex or ur sister,,,,, jst remember his Ex became Ex coz may be ur Bf  didnt like some quality of her, so dnt try being like her , and even like nyone else.

u r u and be urself, show to world the real u and not fake .

so stop comparing others with urself

Answer 4

hmmm i would say this is not a HORRIABLE habbit you just need to build yourself,like say you like the way your sister is so outgoing.well then dont copy her but make yourself be outgoing in your own way.you can do this kind of things with a lot of different qualities.its kinda like building yourself into a person that you wanna be,

DOnt forget to change it up a little though hahah hope i helped(:

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