I really don't wanna be g*y!?

Question

I have posted two other questions about this earlier just look at my profile and under questions, but can people tell me ways how to not turn g*y, I mean I think it's puberty, but I have a girlfriend, and i know i like girls but i find boys sexual sometimes, im going to confession this saturday and maybe that will get rid of any satanist feelings because I also think Satan's trying to get a hold of me by turning me g*y, but first I wanna know if it's puberty or satan, then list ways how to not turn g*y, dont mention having s*x because im 13, thanks!

Answer 1

No one is really g*y. Homosexuality is according to research is a mental condition and a social disorder. Possibly based on emotional disorder as well. The best way to overcome perverted feelings such as homosexuality is to pray and seek guidance from the Lord our God. He knows the immoral of being g*y and knows the best way to get over it is through faith in him.

Answer 2

This is a perfect example of how Christianity creates feelings of guilt where there is absolutely no wrongdoing. You're fine the way you are. g*y people are not morally reprehensible in any way at all.

Edit: Well, if you're afraid of homosexuality, you obviously have eaten up the "g**s are an abomination" foolishness. Don't worry about it.

Answer 3

ok, first, stop the Satan bs.

thats bull

second, youre 13 dude, puberty. im a L*****n and h**l knows i didnt want to believe it because it is a scary thing to handle at 11.

so really, you can only answer that yourself. wait a few years, youll be sure. dont be so ignorant of homosexuality. its not a bad thing and it sure as h**l isnt satan. wait it out

Answer 4

wat? are u serios? u cant stop urself from being g*y

Answer 5

have you  ever thought that you might be bi sexual and it is perfectly normal thing and this church you are going to have put in your mind that is evil to be either g*y or bi sexual and no it not the devil its human nature and how your brain and body works

Answer 6

Grow up man!  We all have aspects of ourselves that we find abhorrent, usually for no real reason at all.  Liking members of the opposite s*x is nothing to be "afraid" of.  Usually the only reason why people want to be "not g*y" is because of social pressure. Why prove how man you are by rising above it?  The church have got nothing on you, at the end of the day.  Just a few bigots with no idea how the world works . . .

Answer 7

Listen I feel sorry for you I really do. I just don't understand why you would want to post that comment in THIS particular category. We are all going to disagree with you, you are almost certainly not going to take anything positive from the advice you get, and worst of all a young g*y man or woman who needs real support right now could read this question and end up feeling even worse about him/herself. If you feel that strongly then post this question in "singles and dating". I'm sure you'll get nothing but glowing support over there.

Answer 8

sounds like you're bi and you're fighting yourself D:

i agree with.... most of the above answers.

Answer 9

Satan can't possibly make you g*y.

It's either just you, or "puberty" as you say.

Puberty itself doesn't determine your sexuality, you do.

Answer 10

Homosexuality is sin just like pre marital s*x is.But g*y s*x is kind of gross.

Answer 11

it may be puberty. but honestly most young boys don't find other boys attractive. give yourself time to develop. and if you are g*y, there is nothing wrong with it.

Answer 12

being g*y doesn't mean you're satanic. there isn't anything wrong with being g*y, you can't help what you're attracted to. satan isn't trying to get a hold of you, and i don't suggest you go to confession. that's only going to make you feel even more guilty than you already are when it isn't necessary. you can't "not" turn g*y if you are g*y. you can deny that you're sexually attracted to men...but deep down the attraction will still be there. it might be puberty, are you sexually attracted towards guys? labels aren't always good to use, but i can understand wanting to be sure of yourself.

edit: don't give you bs? -_- ok, being g*y is like having brown eyes or blue eyes. some people have brown, some people have blue. you could get those contacts to change your eye color, but your eyes are still the color they were originally deep down. sexuality is something like that. basically you're asking how not to get blue eyes when you have brown eyes or something like that. make any sense?

and thanks for the thumbs down.

Answer 13

I just love how the church has screwed up life for so many people.  It's NOT satan, he isn't smart enough to be g*y.  You are either g*y or you're not, there is no list of things to do to not be g*y.

Answer 14

If you are attracted to only members of the same s*x then you are g*y and there is nothing you can do about it. It's not satanic, it is natural. Just accept it  

Answer 15

dude if you're g*y you're g*y you can't change that. It's not satanic by the way so just stop worrying.

Answer 16

Alright bro i will help you out. Well youre not g*y. Nobody was born g*y! Thats a myth. People are g*y, because society makes them feel that they are that way. You can stop being g*y at any time...i mean look at people in prison...they become g*y, than they stop being g*y once they get out! So for starters, stop thinking that you could possibly be g*y cause that will keep the thought in your head. You might just have man crushes...i mean i have had those, and i am for sure not g*y! Also if youre really a christain or catholtic....just pray about it. Just stop thinking about it! And you will see how fast it will go away. Also i know your thirteen, but maybe you should make out with some girls more. Just become very intimate with girls...I hope this works out :)

Answer 17

I really don't wanna be g*y!?

Then dont.

Answer 18

uno what mate sorry, but g*y people are born g*y (in most cases)

so if u turn out g*y embrase it and it isn't the devil

Answer 19

Don't worry so much. If you're feeling guilty and so opposed to it, you obviously aren't g*y! The only reason you have those thoughts is because society has put those ideas in your head. I mean, you've probably thought about hurting someone before right? But did you actually do it? Hopefully not! It's the same thing. If you don't want to be g*y, you won't be. Simple.

Answer 20

There is no such thing as Satan. People just made him up in order to keep people scared.......like you are now. If you don't feel like you're g*y then why the heck are you even asking this question?

Answer 21

Dude.

Answer 22

Sexuality is not a choice. Therefore, there is no part of your feelings that should cause you distress regarding your religion. If you want to confess it to your religious leader, do so. I hope that they are understanding and explain that all of God's children are to be loved for who they are. You have not done wrong by having sexual thoughts of males.

It is likely that you are bisexual, being that you are attracted to both males and females. There is no list of how not to be g*y -- that is not an option that anyone possesses. Also, this has nothing to do with Satan. You are not evil because you are attracted to males. I suggest you do some research into the psychology of homosexuality. I think you will find it to be much better at explaining sexuality than any religious material. If you have more questions about homosexuality, please contact me. You deserve accurate statements about sexuality, not just closed-minded judgments.