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I really dont know what to do...... Please help!?

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Ok so My feance has a 3 yr old boy, who we both love like crazy. Grandama is getting involved way too much. Me and my fiance have full time jobs work from 8am-5pm M-F and go to school from 6pm-10pm M-T. My future mother in law doesnt work because she got injured at her job about 3 years ago. So, because of school she said she would watch him while we went to school. Then she started being "depressed" because she wouldnt see the kid as much as she wanted and my fiance let him spend the night once in a while so she felt bette. Well no she wants to have his son ALL the time and if we dont let her have him during the weekend she'll ask my fiances ex to let the kid spend the night very often and she does. Now since me and my fiance do not have much time to spend with him and my future mother in law has all the time in the world, his son is getting more attatched to her that anything, he even calls her mom! My Fiance just really doesnt know what to do anymore. He doesnt want to hurt her becuase she is "depressed" yet, he wants to be with his son. Advice please?

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  1. we had a situation where my wife spoiled the grand daughter and the child alway wanted to stay here.  fortunately, my wife recognize this, addressed it with our daughter and together they made a plan to deal with this..........

    your situation is different as Grandma is monopolizing the child,

    it will cost you some money but there is always day care and other sitters.........talk to grandma first.....if she doesn't cooperate make a change.........

    her depression is not your problem........

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