I really got caught up in my lies...help?

Question

well this may be long, so i do apologize

im 13 years old right now, and when i started 7th grade, i was literally the Only flat chested girl from grades 6-8 [my school holds pre-K through 8th grade] and the girls in 6th grade always stared at me like i was this sort of "thing" and my friends all had b***s and they always made fun of me saying stuff like "your mad flat!" and "too bad your flat" So then one day i got really depressed, so then after we just came back from our one month vacation from school, i started wearing a cup bra that made my b***s look bigger, and since i got that bra, people started to pay more attention to me, now lemme skip to the part when school ended, and it was summer vacation, i was at a park with my family, and around them i do not wear my cup bra because my father does not let me, so then i saw a couple of some of my friends in that same park!! and they saw me flat chested!! and then i ran to a hiding spot, they were looking all over for me, im not sure what they were gonna do if they had found me, now that schools almost starting again in 1 week, im scared if they might spread the rumor to my whole school saying im flat chested, [they are backstabbing friends not really my friends i just mention them that] it would mean THE WORLD to me if anyone helps me out...i have been really depressed about this lately...please please help D;=

Answer 1

every girl develops at different times the lumps an bumps on their body and you are ok.. there is nothing wrong with you. if wearing the cup bra has helped you the keep wearing it and consult your mother and talke to her..

there is nothing wrong with you.. its not easy facing othes that develop faster then others, thats life.  your doing ok..

i dont know how big your cup bra is but can you not get trainer bras

just be yourself

dont let them pressure you to be like them

talk to your dad and tell him how things are and help him understand the hassles you go thru with the others at school and by wearing the bra you get respect.. you are not trying to look s**y or anything you just dont want to be hassled..

all the best  

Answer 2

just ignore the rumours and if somebody comes up to you and asks then just say "i have NO idea what you are talking about" or "seriously, i've been getting this all day, why doesn't _____ (girls names) get over it?" or "i don't know, maybe they just saw me at a strange angle or something?"

just don't blush or anything and just act cool and as though it never happened. and if those girls come up to you, then just say "you must have seen me from a strange angle" or something...

hope i helped :)

Answer 3

Ignore what others are saying...if you really need help talk to your family (mother) & seek a doctor's help... you will feel better with profesional attaintion.

Answer 4

now what kind of friends are those?i say dump them.and i'm the same age and same condition.i haven't got periods either.every girl in my class except me.there's nothing much to that.that is not some important thing to make fun of like this.the timing differs for everyone.there's a good joke in my head that you can  crack at them but i think you needn't.you just concentrate on your studies,they'll come when they have to.and about that lie....well,i say you just go out and tell them.tell that you realized that you didn't need it ,so you removed it and tell them it doesn't matter what they think because they're just useless friends.shout goodbye on their face and search for a better friend.

Answer 5

The other girls in your school who saw you at the park would be looking forward to back stab you. You would make their job a lot easier by being worried about it and thinking too much about it.  The only way to handle this is attitude. This would allow you to be cool and relaxed. Act as if nothing happened.

If wearing cup bras make you feel good and confident then keep wearing them and let other people worry about what they saw.

On a side note, one thing you gotta to remember, b***s size is not all that matters. If you are really witty, fun to be with and make people you would still get the best of guys and other friends. Unfortunately we realize this only when we grow up and then wonder why did i paid so much more focus on the size of my b***s. I would say this is the best part of your life, have fun and be happy. Don't spend too much time worrying about this, it doen't matter..

Answer 6

Don't lie, I mean if anyone asks ignore them. Rumors are always going to be spread but sooner or later someone will top yours so don't sweat it. It also shows you are the bigger person.

Answer 7

Just say it was the bra you were wearing and you didnt realized it made your b***s look bigger. dont say sorry cuz your 'friends' seem like the kind of ppl you just wanna kick ;)