I really hate my life right now.

Question

This past year my three best friends betrayed me. My dog whom I grew up with died. My parents always fight and said that the might be getting a divorce. I cut myself because the emotional pain is too hard to handle. I have thought about commiting suicide because it just seems like no one would ever miss me. I have never told anybody about these things because I just feel like no one would understand or even care. I don't feel like I could talk to any of my family members about how I feel. I just don't know what to do anymore.

Answer 1

You have to talk to somebody about this.  A friend, family member, guidance counselor, somebody.  It's rough, but you do need help.  But suicide is not the answer.  Things will get better, but you need to get help for that to happen.

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Answer 2

don't hurt yourself. don't kill yourself. please just do your best to hang in there. it's ok to talk to someone. they will understand. think of the positives. remember all things happy and keep yourself smiling. you  can do it. maybe even see a psychologist. just know that there is a bright side to every situation.

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Answer 3

i think that in order to get to the good things u need to go thru the bad.

i have had past experience with myself and friends with cutting and suicide. If you really hated your life that much you wouldn't tell anyone about this much less post it for everyone to see. but my point is u would not tell anyone because if u truly hated ur life that much u wouldn't want to be stopped. there is obviously something in your life worth living for or else u would have done it already. just think about what that is. and whenever something goes wrong just think about it and it will get you  thru. if they are fighting rite in front of u just go in your room and close the door or at least away from them. call up a friend and get out of the house. if u need to talk then just email me at [e-mail] im here for ya hang in there!!

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Answer 4

I feel for your pain, and hope the world brightens up for you.  Perhaps stop depending on others for your own happiness, leard to make your own way in the world, at least emotionally, and then these setbacks won't hurt so bad?  

Answer 5

i would go seek professional help.

a counselor or physiologist will listen to u and everything they can to help...

harming urself in any way is not the way to stop your problems...

my 20 year old cousin comitted suicide....MY AUNT AND UNCLE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AND NEITHER WILL MY WHOLE FAMILY....

Answer 6

try to talk to someone. whether it is in person or on the phone.

there are many suicide hotlines you can call and the counselors actually listen to you. make sure you discuss your feelings with someone.

Answer 7

I know where you're at right now.

I just moved, had to put 2 of my pets, who I grew up with, to sleep, my friend died, my brother is extremely depressed, and my life is changing in a reallly big way.

but you have to realize there is a future for you, and 30 years from now you won't remember all the pain your going through. things ALWAYS get worse before they get any better, so I would just look at it as being prepared for a really good thing about to happen. life is full of ups and downs, and everyone has been in a low state of mind.

just keep your head up, it WILL be worth it.

Answer 8

1.) cut across the road, not down the lane, even better DONT CUT; its a form of self pity and may make you hate yourself.

2.) if they put a roof over your head, they will miss you if you die.

3.) we all have crappy lives at times

4.) i love you!

5.) then talk to friends, or talk to me.

Answer 9

There's always a person who loves you!

God loves you, and wants what is best for you.

Trust him. He has a plan for your life that you might not be able to understand right now, but will one day!

God bless!

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Answer 10

i had a lot of pets n they all died so i got over that. when i was two my parents divorced so it didnt phase me as much  as it probably phases u.even tho it seems bad ur friends will one day need u trust me i no just keep ur head up and soon every one will want to be your friend  

Answer 11

omg babe i know how you feel! Exept other problems dont cut! pleasee babe! Please dont cut not worth it! I know how you feel you have to stop! I can help if you want! Please please stop dont do any self harm and dont commit scuiside! I will miss you! :) and I know TTONZ of other people will! I am sure you are a very awesome person to be with! Dont let anyone bring you down! Maybe listen to music really loud, write, Take a long hot shower and cry, talk to someone (I do all of that) tell your parents how you feel about their fighting.! ^_^

Please please try to stop, you are specail and you are worth it!

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LOVE YOU TONZ!! I hope i helped sweetie!

Answer 12

Pray. Jesus is a good listener.

He will solve your problems.

All you have to do is accept Jesus as your savior and beileve that he died on the cross for you so you can live. And if you live and act like a christian, you can go to heaven after death and live forever. It has worked for me since kindergarden and it is and will keep working for me because many miracles have happend in my life because of the one called Jesus, Lord of Lords, and King of Kings.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eP173o9yT...

Answer 13

make new friend and maybe find a guy that makes u feel good about ur self and its not healthyy  to cut ur self or to hurt ur self pd i know it hurts bc it is a part of life i hate to say try to keep a notebook or something to write down ur feeling i know tha helped me bf with his problm  u may think that no on e will miss you but there are a lot of ppl that will

i hope i helped and dont hurt ur self please  

Answer 14

cutting yourself and commitisuicidecide won't help anything. you need to pray to god and I mean pray b/c  he does some awesome things for me he saved me. and just try to turn things upside down. you have a whole future ahead of you dont waste it god loves you!!!

hey I'llbe your friend give me your email  

Answer 15

ok, um i deal with these kind athings for sometimes. but i would love to help you and email you . but if you disagree, life is not sweet , yes you had some toug times, but you know its the tough times that gets us thru and makes us better for the future. you have to first go thru some steps and if you contact me, i will help you no doubt! k ! much love! k bye for now! until we hopefully talk again.. do not do suicide,, i can help!!! :)

Answer 16

Kelsey, its ok.we all feel alone at times.I lost my daughter a few months back to a suicide.I wish there was some way to stop that pain. I'm sure she wouldn't have done it if she would have known what kind of pain it cost all of her family.don't put that on them.you seem very intelligent, think about all your values.If you think about it , I'm sure there are many.Hang in there . Talk to a counselor , a friend or a parent , they care. sometimes its just hard to tell .

Answer 17

Sometimes everything seems to go wrong, and we feel friendless.  I

have been in that position, but things do get better.  You will always

have a friend in Jesus, and he shares your cares and hurts.  I urge

you to pray, to talk to a clergy person, to talk with a school counselor,

and look forward to the rest of your life.  

Things won't always go right, but keep your goals in sight.  Things will

get better.

Answer 18

I went through a period like this for a while, I can only tell you that it will get it better! Don't do anything in haste, if you want to contact me to talk at any stage feel free hun!

You should try to talk to someone in the samaritans & they could put you in touch with some1 who could help, talking it over with starngers is easier!

Good luck

Answer 19

Kelsey, I know you don't believe that life will get great again, but it will. Please let your family know about the pain you are in. I am a therapist with teens and you are not alone, there are a lot of girls who feel the same. Right now, all of my formerly suicidal teens are doing great, looking and feeling good. You deserve to feel good too--please reach out and accept help.

Answer 20

i went through the same thing. but you gotta know that there ARE people out there that would be absolutely devastated if you killed yourself. Stop slitting your wrists because it will get you no where. I'm sorry your dog died. my pet hamster and bird died within the same month. And you should know that even though your friends 'betrayed' you, they would be crushed to find you dead. Talk to your parents and maybe they'll stop fighting for you, because they know that their first priority should be you and only you. Some people kill themselves because they want everyone to miss them, they want them to hurt like they've been. But it will do nothing but crush and torment people each day if you did that. Just remember that there are probably millions of souls out there somewhere that would kill to live again. and that we should take advantage of our health and the fact we can still breathe pure air, and fix the mistakes in our life.

     i hope you get better. i really do.

Answer 21

I understand where you're coming from. Friends have betrayed me in the past and that just means there are better ones to comee.  My dog that i was in love with got tooken away from me and my parents fight often. Cutting yourself isnt an option, it wont help you. I think all people at some point in life will think about commiting suicide but you have to realize therre are peope who love you even if you dont know it . Turn to someone you can trust and get their opinion. Your parents fighting probably has nothing to do with you and if there comes to be a divorce just know it isn't our fault, stuff happens. Close friends will care and maybe even a close neighbor would do some good. Good luck and remeber cutting yourself isn't the answer !

Answer 22

I know where you're coming from. Emotional pain is hard to deal with, and it's easy to forget about it by hurting your body. But that's not a good way to handle it. It's an easy way out, and sometimes the easy way out isn't the best. Pray. If you turn to God, and let Him into your life, I can almost guarantee you that life will start to look up. Deciding to trust Him is one of the best decisions you'll ever make. I've been there. I used to be suicidal too. But now I'm so much happier. Now I'm not saying that everything will instantly get better, but over time things will look better. I promise.  

Answer 23

Hey Kelsey:  I know exactly what you're talking about...My cat of 9 years died a couple of months ago...I'm separated from my husband...and my best friend has moved to another state...hang in there...I feel lost and lonely sometimes....are you spiritual at all??..may a pastor could give you some guidance....let me know if you want to talk...take good care

Answer 24

you dont know how lucky you are to be alive, most people dont, but starving kids, or prisoners of war, or kidnapped ppl do, and they come back happy of life and most religious than ever, most americans dont apreciate life for its easyness, but go a few days as homeless, or go to africa or the russian-georian conflict and you will apreciate life

Answer 25

for all this pain you are going through right now

things will be better. and when it comes it will be

such a big surprise you be be glad you held on as long as you did

please its not worth it there must be a brother/sister/cousin

that will miss you terribly and you dont want to hurt them

would you?

Answer 26

Talk about it to your folks. Mine sent me to counseling when I was younger (about 16) and they never realized I was bi-polar. So after another 15 years of living on the edge I realized the problem and now take meds. It's important to talk to people. One of my best friends killed himself in Feb. I never got to say goodbye. That sucks, he never knew how many people cared. Talk to someone OK? Good luck...

Answer 27

Everything will be okay we all have moments like that just dont give up.  Go talk to a counselor at your school or church.  But please don't give up on yourself, I'm sure your friends and family love you very much and would really miss you.  I have been there but as time go by things get better.  Look at your friends betraying you as a lesson and now you will be better able to pick and choose your friends wisely.  But you are not alone.  We all go through it.

Answer 28

Try losing your sister at 5 years old by her drowning, getting cancer 6 times, parent's already divorced, with your dad in jail, and a teacher failing you therefore you do not graduate because the teacher "just doesn't like you."

Didn't happen to me, but your life could always be worse

Answer 29

i don'tt think you should kill ya self,no onee or nothings worth killing ya self and going to h**l for. on the other hand there is a time in life were things get hard acuttingtin ya self is not making the sistuation better only(worst).. even though it might be hard to do talk to ur parents someone close in ur family.. see a therapistpsit

Answer 30

You shouldn't be feeling like this! Your three friends betraying you is not nice but s***w them if they betrayed you then they are certainly not worth being friends with. Your dog dieing is not nice but just think about the good times that their were, you cant bring him back but just be glad that he was in your life when you had him! Your parents getting a divorce is a hard problem as you are right in the middle but just remember if they are not happy then they cant help that just try to talk to them and you may help. Now even thought you think no one will miss you they certainly will. Your mum and dad would be devastated, even thought they are arguing you should maybe say how you are feeling and it may make them think what they are doing. Not just to each other but to you. You only live once, if you need help ask your mum or dad because even thought they are fighting alot they still care andwouldn'tt want you to feel like this! hope this helps =)  

Answer 31

Please don't suicide it's a stupid thing to do.  If you dont' feel happy talk to your friend or just tell your parents your very sad becaue their always fight.  How old are you?  If you are still a teenager go out work as voulnteer and hang out with friends so you wont' think about the sad things all the times .   Just make yourself busy so you wont' think about all the sad stuffs.  Good luck!