I really like a Girl, but i dont think ill have a chance with her.?

Question

I broke up with my girlfriend about 4 months ago(after 7 months) because i caught her cheating on me at a party, the sad part is, it was with a guy AND a girl. But i got over it eventually and now i really like this girl, you is extremely cute and beautiful, she has personality and all. Ive liked this girl before and even went out with her once, but we broke up bc i was a bad boyfriend(not cheating or anything, i just didnt spend enought time with her), but now, shes only liking the extremely popular guys, like one of my friends(thats a great guy friend), but he treats his women HORRIBLY, in fact he just broke up with his girlfriend bc he found out she believed in abstinence. Shes just gonna get her heart broken by the guys at our school. I like her soo much, but shes always got her standards a couple higher than me. I dont think im ugly, ive had alot of girlfriends, but im not like and uber hot hunk or anything. But what im trying to ask is, what can i do to get her to like me?

Ill literally try anything....

even maybe jealousy, but i dontl ike to use girls.''

thanks

Answer 1

Let's start at the beginning.

Why are you knocking yourself and putting yourself down.

You don't have the hulking looks, so what, they are only an outside thing anyways. personality, a sense of humour, the way you treat people, especially with honesty and respect, can far outweigh looking like Arnie or a pretty boy, and anyway, looks fade.

She will find out the hard way what a jerk this guy is, be there to pick up the pieces, show her how a real man treats his girl, with care, and respect, not like something that he's trod in, which is how it seems as though this guy is.

If she doesn't want to date you, then it's her loss, I am sure there are plenty of girls out there with the inner values, the ones that count like personality, sense of humour, caring and trusting, who will make you think about them , even when they are not there, if you can get past the outer things, like body size and colour, looks and all the other outer c**p which usually can't be changed, well not naturally anyways.

Good luck,

Mike t.

Answer 2

Don't  "try anything", (certainly not manipulation of any kind).

Just be yourself, if she doesn't like you for who you are, don't try to become someone she will like, if she doesn't like you as you are, she's not worthy of you!

Luck

Answer 3

Get 1 of ur friends 2 go out with her until she likes him alot then ask him 2 break up wit him but tell him this b4 he starts and then wen he breaks up wit her she'll b in a weak spot and u should go and comfort her.

            BUT THIS IS A LAST RESORT!!!!

                                 good luck !!  

Answer 4

I don't think you should use jealousy, sometimes it works but its a very risky game. You don't need to do anything special i don't think. Just show her the real you, if your a nice enough person then she'll give you a chance. Making her laugh will help a lot. If you don't want to do that then you need to find someone to find out if you have a chance with her and if you do then flirt like mad!

Answer 5

well honestly you can't tell her that because girls always think diffrently she might think your jealous and just making that up(about the other guys) what you can do is try to hang out with her(alone) and tell her that you have feelings for her and if she tells you she doesn't feel the same way atleast you'll know it was never meant to be and go on with your life ..but don't try so hard you'll end up getting hurt just keep in mind that if she doesn't feel the same about you then that's not in the cards for you ..someother girl is so don't stress over it  good luck let me know what your going to do and if it work if you can