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I really like him but I dont want to mess anything up!

by Guest64421  |  earlier

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Ok, so on Saturday night I was outside with my best friend and my sister. Since I am 14. (turning 15 on saturday) I thought I could get a boy friend. So my friend called her ex boyfriend and said would you go out with one of my friends. He said ok but she was like would you prefer older or younger so he choose older whice was me.

I am going to be a sophmore in high school and he found that pretty cool. So ya I have him my number and we talked for like an hour. His younger brother kept going in the room while we were on the phone. His brother was like who are you on the phone with and all he kept saying was a hot girl. Then he was like can we hang out tomorrow and I said ok. But he called me back and said would you ever go out with a freshman. I was like if I like them then why not. SO I was like ok if I like you when we hang out tomorrow I would deffinatly go out with you and he said cool.

So yesterday once again it was me my 2 friends and my sister all hanging out and my one friend was like call him to see if he is comming so I called and he was like sure. But once i got off the phone with him, she was like ok go look like trash. I was like why would I do that. She is like because you know I still like him and I dont want you to go out with him. So I told her that if she felt this way i would have never started talking to him or liking him.

So I was like ok if looking not like a s**t like i usually dress can make him not like me and it will keepy my friend from getting hurt then i will to it. So I ran inside and put on a tank top with booty shorts put my hair in a bun and wore my glasses. So when he came over he would not talk to me at all then he was like w.e im leaving. So when he was leaving my friend was like see he thinks your not pretty so he likes me again. I yelled at him which made me feel bad but i didn't know what else to do. But then my friend had gone up to talk to him and same came back down saying ok you know what i lied. He likes you and I was jealous thats the only reason I made y ou do this. Ya he still likes you just not the way your dressed right now. THen she was like ok go inside and make your self look hot. I said why would I want to do that he probaly still would not talk to me and i REALLY like him. All I did was sit there and almost cry because I was so pissed off. Now the boy i like wont answer his phone,talk to me on myspace & blocked me on aim.

Please I really need help. I know I dont want to lost my friend to a guy but she said she really wants me to go out with him now after she saw the way I was after he left.

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  1. If you like him then date him hun ,lol.

    But if you dont like him then dont date him.


  2. Your "friend" is a manipulative little witch. The guy is a jerk who is apparently pretty shallow. Forget the guy, forget the friend and go on with your life. You're 14-15. ENJOY IT! Don't rush yourself to grow up. I won't even get into the dressing S****y thing, but please remember... The guys who are worth your time will like you no matter what you're wearing. The ones who notice you when you're dressed like a street walker are NOT the kind of boys you want attention from.

  3. The guy should like you no matter what you look like.

    don't date him. or at least wait for him to talk to you.  

  4. your friend is a *****! completly winding you up. forget this guy, you can get nicer and dont worry about losing your friend. you'd be doing yourself a big favour!  

  5. Have your friend call him, have her tell him what she did(making you change your clothes etc) then maybe he will call you and if he doesn't, try calling him again.

  6. Stop putting yourself down, she wasn't acting like a real friend, you need to tell her to go talk to that boy and set things straight. It was her fault in the first place and what kind of friend would do that to another? I'm a guy so I should know.

  7. forget the guy forget your girlfriend because she is not a friend she is like a bos to you.. and you at your age is very young to have a boyfriend you should be thinking of your studies, and a nice career in the future don't rush to have one now that will only lead to something else not good.. its better to focuse on studies a career something benificial and then when you reach 20 then that's the right time to fine a boyfriend.. remember that there is a lot of men in the world...  

  8. It wasn't fair of your friend to do that. You could have gone about it in a much better way were she not so bitchy about it. I would suggest explaining it to him. It can be hard when you and your friend like the same boy, especially at this age, girls can make life h**l, especially ones you're close to. I'd call him up and explain the situation to him. Which is what I would have suggested, in the first place, had the whole situation not happened and your friend had only told you it bothered her that you were talking to him.

    I know she might not want him to know she likes him.

    But if she's going to cause problems in your life, and not even do anything about her liking him, then wtf.

    He should know the truth.

    And you deserve a chance for you and him to at least be friends.

    You don't need to ruin your reputation, by him going around saying you're a s**t or dress like a s**t.

  9. Im so sorry but Id dump the guy

  10. dont go out with him if hes that superficial.

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