I really like someone but i think they dont feel the same? Help please?

Question

Wel theres this guy that ive seen a couple fo times, and i really like him and i know he likes like me, but i think he only wants a quick or short fling, if u know what i mean. Im trying to take it slow, i dont want something that lasts 1 or 2 weeks. What do i do, i get really shy when im around him and nervous. Do i just not see him, ask to be friends, say to him how i feel. I know if i say just to be friends i'll still want to be with him even though i know i couldnt be. Or do i take the moment and just go for it. Urgh i dont know

thanks

Answer 1

I think you should be very strict about it especially if you are not in for quick flings. You should tell him that you like him and if he like you back than you tell him that you're not in for short term stuff but you should be careful because he might say okay we will take it slow and than suddenly you give in and than its over. So you should be really careful. And you should just go for it just ask him but you should ask him when there are no people around that way he cant embarrass you when he rejects you. And that way no one knows. If he admits that he only wants quick flings than reject him because you're worth more than just quick flings and you also have you self respect. Next time better you dont need a quick fling and just move on and dont pay attention to him. Good luck:)