I really like this boy but he already has a girlfriend!?!?

Question

Ok so i have this boy in my school that i really like. i have liked him for about 2 years now but we were always friends and i never really knew if he liked me like i like him, but i finally had the courage to ask him and he dropped the bomb that he has a girlfriend. this really discouraged me because i have never had a true boyfriend. I think he does like me because he is really flirty or what i consider flirty. and he is really nice.

So can anyone help me because i really like him.

so you can e-mail me and after that you can aim me when you e-mail me.

Thanks so much, cause i really need help on this. :)

Answer 1

lay off until when (if) they break up.

dont you dare break anyone up though. thats just not cool.

Answer 2

well you want what you cant have,and if someones nice it may be because they are..just say you and him where together would you like some girl lusting for your man wanting to be with him and have them take him away from you..there is plenty of fish in the sea so move on you dont want to be known as the woman who steals boyfriends do you...if your good friends with each other things will work out in time...

Answer 3

You already have your answer.

He isn't going to break up with his girlfriend for you. And I wouldn't' wait around for him to do it either. It is clear he likes you as a friend and nothing more.

Just because a guy is flirty and nice does not mean he is interested in you. Perhaps that is just how he is.

You need to move on and, if you can, stay friends with him. But you have to realize, what you want isn't going to happen no matter what you do. To keep trying to pursue it will only waste your time that you could be using to find a guy who is available.

Answer 4

He has a girlfriend, so whether he likes you or not he's off limits. If he breaks up with his girlfriend and you ask him why, and he tells you that he did it because he liked you, don't get all excited.

He'll do the same to you.

Answer 5

he was very honest to you GET THE MESSAGE HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, OK SO MAYBE HE JUST TOLD YOU THAT, SO THAT MEANS I DO MNOT LIKE YOU THAT WAY  

Answer 6

If it's meant to be you'll eventually be together so just wait it out, don't try to break them up or anything.

Answer 7

well tht is a bummer.,

im sure this girl tht he is going out with is just a fling i mean if he didnt even tell you about her b4 then he mustn't or wanted you to stop flirting with him. unless he is leading you on?!?!

maybe after they brake up thing will just work themselves out. whatever you do dont make a move while he is going out with the other girl u will seem like a s**t!!

hope this helps:)  

Answer 8

keep being friends they r easier to keep :)