I really like this girl, is this an OK plan?

Question

we are both 13.

we've gone to the same school for two years. last year we never talked much at all. i first thought that she was one of the girls who considered her social status above mosts. i was wrong. i hope. shes just very social is what i mean,

this year i have talked to her, broken the ice, but havn't had a real conversation with her. even a joke. i mean, ive made her laugh in class, and we make eye contact, i smile at her. i think she likes me. anyways...

next friday i think im going to ask her out to a movie and the mall for a bit. not as a date. but say something along the lines of

'hey, tommorow do you want to go to the movies and then hang out at the mall?"

then afterwards if we both had a good time ask her if she wanted to do anything more and that i enjoyed her company? i can pay for both of us btw, i wouldnt be that *** who would make her pay.

anywho. from what i can tell we both like eachother well enough. we havnt broken the touch barrier yet either..

this is next friday too btw, so i think i can make a few moments count in that time. maybe a few more laughs, and a conversation?

do i need to get to know her better though? because.. she really doesnt know much about me. what topics should i bring up with her in school? we really dont have much alone time...

anyways, dont say rejection isnt bad, i know. dont say 'just ask her out' give me a real response please.

Answer 1

you should prob try to talk to her a lot more before you ask her 2 the movies (btw, shes gunna think of it as a date even if you dont mean it) and if you find that she likes you than go for it. however, the thing with 13 year olds is that its not really about personality yet. most of the time you need to be in the same social circle. but if you are, then i think you have a good chance with her. good luck =]

Answer 2

if you're willing to just walk up to her and ask her out, why not just walk up and start talking to her first?  just talk about the class you're in together.  ask if she thought the homework was tough.  try to become more friendly with her before you ask her out.  if you aren't friends before you go out, the result could be some VERY awkward moments when you're alone with her.. if you want a real relationship to work, try getting to know her a little better before you ask her on a date.

Answer 3

i dont think you should rush it...no offense. you kept sayin that you two barley know eachother...

talk to her more, ask her questions about her family, fav school subject, fav movie, fav color...stuff like that

after you know her more start with the flirting...ask her questions like how old were you when you had your first kiss?

wait awhile, then ask her out.

before you make a move tho, try to chill with her during lunch, and in between classes.

i hope i helped, and i hope everything works out for you....(btw, im 13 too!!!)

Answer 4

Don't try to make her laugh too much, she'll think you're a clown. You don't want to be the "funny guy". The funny guy never gets the girl. If she agrees to the mall and the movies try saying this....

1. I been wanting to get to know you for a long time

2. You're a lot more down to earth than I thought, I'm glad I was wrong about you

3. Thanks for hanging out, it means a lot to me.

4. Ask if you can see a baby picture of her. It'll give you an oppotunity to talk to her again, next time you see her you can ask about the picture. If she asks why you want to see it, tell her it's because you think she musta been a beautiful baby (or a cute kid)

Here are some questions you can ask

1. Favorite Book, movie, color, song, cartoon character, past time

2. What do you do for fun?

Answer 5

Honestly.

13, thats like 8th grade.

most girls at that time, dont care what your personality is, as long as you're "hot"

and will probably go out with you for a week maybe just to show off to their friends that she has a "boyfriend"

You seem like a really nice guy, i would be so happy if i met someone like you,

but otherwise.

at your age. girls dont think anything of it

you can try though.

Edit :

Im in 10th grade, alittle older than you.

Trust me, i went through that whole phase.

all the girls i knew, only had a boyfriend for show.

You can think what you want, honestly its just my opinion.

in this day in age, young love is very rare.