I really like this guy?

Question

Ive known him for almost 5 years now, but he's the type of guy who stays commited to one relationship, but the thing is he's with this girl, whom is over the INTERNET, and she lives in newyork, and for 6 months now she hasnt even sent him a picture, promising she will, but he's still waiting. He and I spoke about it, he's seen me, im real, we talk all the time, im right in front of him, I support him though and help him out in the relationship he's in when both of us know how I feel, am I being selfish, or is he being selfish? whats the deal? they started dating in april, and it's now September his patience is wearing thin, and he's still waiting! whats the deal? I really like him, ive seen him trhough his worst, I want to be the one to make him happy. HELP!

Answer 1

I think you just need to put yourself more out there, and he'll realize:

"Hey, here is a BEAUTIFUL girl infront of me, and this person on the internet could be some 45 year old man"

And he will get with you, but you gotta smack some sense to him, if that means applying some 'pressure'.

Goodluck champ.

Answer 2

you are selfish if he wanted to be with you he would back off

Answer 3

talk to him.