I really like this guy that I really need help with so can you help me

Question

I really like this hot guy named alen and hes in my school.He was going out with this one girl named briana.Now they broke up and now she hates him.So I asked him out and he said no because he still really loves briana.So I said ok.Now one of my really good friend name lorena asked him out and he said yes so then they started to go out.Then everyone started to hate alen because all of his friends already hate lorena and so they got mad.So then he broke up with her and then someone made a cutest couples list on myspace and it was me and alen on it so then he left them a comment saying if you wanna hook me up with someone make sure their hot.So them I messaged him saying 'thats messed up that you said that'.And then he said"said what"And then i told him so then he said "thats not messed up thats true and if you think that thats messed up then i'm messed up.so then I told him that yea I'm not hot and idc looks arent everything.Then he said looks arent everything but their pretty d**n important and fyi you personality sucks to physcio ***** and then I just said whatever.So then a week later I was at this party and alen was on the phone and I had to ask him something about someone so then later he's all (you know me)Is mean so then my friend was like why and then he said because she was being mean to me over myspace and then I was like cuz you did it first and then he was all yea but I was just joking cant you take a joke so yea what should I do with him now can you help me?

Answer 1

Awww, this is cute.  You should print out your question and put it in your diary so you can read 5 years from now and laugh!  

Alen sounds like a typical teen who is used to getting almost any girl.  You seem to have a bit of a crush on him, which is why you were hurt by what he said on myspace (which was mean, btw).  The fact that he now says he was just joking means he probably is so insecure that he can't stand anyone not liking him (evidenced by him breaking up with the other girl b/c his friends didn't like her).  Don't waste any more thoughts and energy on this idiot, just imagine turning him down when he hits on you ten years from now and you're super hot and he's still acting like a teenager b/c high school was the best time of his life.

Answer 2

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