I really love my boyfriend ...... he cheated tho ...?

Question

he told the gurl that he doesnt want to b with her now......she sayin that she is pregant wat should i do i need help

Answer 1

If you think staying with him is worth it while he has another baby with somone else then I would wait and find out if the baby is his for sure and if he loved you enough he wouldnt have gotten another girl pregnant

MAKE HIM PAY!!!!

not talking to him like completly ignoring him gets them real GOOD

Answer 2

What a horrible situation! He made a really stupid mistake that could potentially change the course of many lives. I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm going to assume that you're young.

I have very strong opinions on cheating, and relationships in general. First off, "love" is a feeling, and that feeling has very little to do with how compatible two people are, or how strong the relationship is. Two people can love each other very much, but just don't make a good couple, and the relationship is doomed. (That's even without the cheating.)

Now, in terms of cheating, well, there is only one case that I can think of where forgiveness is in order, and that's if the two people are married with children. (And even that should be a case-by-case basis.) The fact that he's your boyfriend makes it obvious that you are not married. In this case, you should cut your losses and break up with him. He cheated. Period. Even if you could forgive him now, will you ever trust him again? If you forgive him now, will it make it easier for him to do it again?

The fact that the girl got pregnant (allegedly) is irrelevant. That's their problem. Not only was he unfaithful to you, but the two of them were irresponsible enough to not use protection. (Which also suggests that there is a possibility that your health is at risk if anyone had STI's. Go to the clinic and get tested, Dear.) The fact that he doesn't want to be with her simply says something about his character, not his devotion to you. It says that not only is he willing to betray you, but he's willing to drop her when faced with the consequences of his actions. What a loser!

Again, the fact that you love him will make it hard to leave him, I know. (Trust me.) But you MUST leave him, for your own self-respect. I firmly believe that love is never a good enough reason to stay in a dead relationship. It's dead. Period. You can find someone you love who won't cheat on you, he's out there. Or, just be happy being single for a while.

It will hurt for a while, I know, but the pain gets less and less as time goes on.

Good luck Honey!

Answer 3

Get out while you can.

Answer 4

Well, should it really matter if he told the girl that he doesn't want to be with her anymore? So he chose you in the end....He chose her when he decided to cheat on you....His telling her that shouldn't do anything to make you feel better...If it does then that just shows that you want to be the winner...Being with someone who doesn't care enough for you to be faithful doesn't make you a winner for sure. How old are you and how long have you been with him? We could all tell you that you should leave him, but really the question is...Could you leave him?

Answer 5

Oh my, you have to be like 16, so why are with this loser. He doesn't use protection, he's getting chicks pregnant.... He could be bubbling with all kinds of infectious venereal diseases. Wear rubber gloves around this guy.

Get away from him. Even if the baby isn't his, the possibility that it is means that his bare p***s was rubbing inside someone..... ::shudders::

Answer 6

Once a cheater-ALWAYS a cheater! Leave and get yourself a new man! Just like the Beyonce song says.

Answer 7

Leave him! If he did it once, her WILL do it again!!!! You deserve better than that and there are so many good guys out there that would give you the world. I am not telling you to run from one man to another but never settle for less and set your heels to better fields! Don't embarrass yourself by staying in this relationship anylonger. He is not worth it! ALSO.... You need to be mindful of STD's!!! You don't even know if that girl has AIDS or something! Don't risk your life for that fool and get tested! ASAP

Sorry to scare you but this is the real world!!!

True love doesn't hurt this way sweetie. You have to get wise!!!!!  

Answer 8

walk away really fast and hold your head up high! He is scum! And now he is walking away on his possible baby too.  You dont deserve that!!