I really need advice im just so sad!?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months not but before that we were best friends and new eachother for like 5 years, even me and his sister were best freinds, but since were religious ever since we started going it has been different...his parents think were too young and my mom agrees with them to a point but they wont let us talk on the phone, they dissconnected his phone, took away the computer, wont really let him use the car and when I hang out with his sister he can't be there anymore...and im sooo sad and crying cuz i always just wanna be with him, my parents understand us but his don't and i donno what to do, im sooo sad and the only person that can make me feel better he can't be here with me...im 16 and he's 17...what should we do, what can I do??? Im not gonna try talking to them, we already tried and I dont wanna hear were too young eathier cuz really were not...please give sum advice please

Answer 1

I'm so sorry and you are definitely not too young.  I don't know what I can tell you to do, except see him as much as you can at church.  You could always sneak around, but that's never a good idea and usually doesn't end very well.  When does he turn 18?  Technically, he can talk to anyone he wants then.  His parents won't be able to tell him you can't speak with him.

Once again, I'm so sorry and I wish I could smack some sense into his parents for you.

Answer 2

You are not to young to date or be truly in love. Perhaps his parents are concerned you will get intimate too young and that is why they are coming between you.

I feel desperately sorry for you but there is not a lot you can do unless he is prepared to stand up to his parents and defy them. If he is 17 now it cannot be too long before he is 18 and legally old enough to make his own decisions. I hope for your sake that he will arrange to see you again then.

Answer 3

tell them that your not too young and neither is he!!! and if your not pregnant by now (and just look at some of the cases here, and Y!A) then you are really responsible and you can point that out, if you want.

or if that doesn't work, you can always play the break up scene, while your with your/his parents/family.

Answer 4

I'm sorry and you are not to young to date! Just because your religious doesn't mean you cant see each other try bringing his sister to church with you and have her convince her brother to come maybe his parents will change there views about your religion. I'm sorry good luck!