I didn't know what other section to put this in so it is here. Please read it even though it is long. I feel sooo stuck and frustrated.
I have a friend, she used to be my best friend. Well our friendship started to fall downhill since March. The reason I think was because she wanted me to meet this guy she was having relations with but wasn't her boyfriend. And this guy along with his room mate tried to rape me right in front of her.
She cared for like 2 days then started seeing him again. It was like she completely put that behind her and didn't care that he was a jerk (which he was all along) she was so desperate that she stayed by him. And then later I find that she let him kind of "pass her around" to his friends. I pretended like I didn't care at first because he some how made her happy.
After that she started disagreeing with everything I say even when she knew I was right. I mean everything. for example: I would say oh my birthday is coming up... she would say no it isn't you still have a while when it was only 3 months away. I would say my mom's cemetery is far away she would say oh it's not far at all. When it is about 10 miles from where I live. She doesn't live on her own and when I say living on your own is hard she always says oh its not hard I don't get how people can't save that much and complain about bills.
She used to be a great friend but now that this worthless, good for nothing, guy who I know sleeps with other girls besides her and takes drugs and drinks has come into her life she is a completely different person.
Today I told her how I felt and about how she shouldn't be near this guy and she is going to fall right on her bum if she keeps it up with him. I told her that she should know better because she has s*x with him and his friends sometimes with out a condom because she thinks the pull out method is ok and it isn't because I wouldn't be surprised if she has an std already. And she got really mad at me for saying this, called me a **** for getting pregnant again and just stopped talking to me and hung up.
I don't know what to do about this. She WAS such a good friend. I don't know wheather to just stop being her friend and let her fall on her butt with this good for nothing looser or try to fix it when I don't think it can be fixed. I don't know how she can't see past this guy. He is just using her.
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