I really need advise please i need as many peoples opinions?

Question

i think i'm pregnant, cuzwhen i was preg with my son i just knew and i've been late now with my period my son is only four months his fathers around but not as often as i wished he comes home round 12-3 at night and leaves at noon we're engaged but things arn't the greatest between us i feel like hes cheating and sometimes we break up i can handle being a single mother of one, basically am. now i went to get put on bc because i don't think nows the time to have another although i would love a little girl but i couldn't start bc until my next period. still waiting. its late. he keeps asking me if i'm taking it yet like he doesn't want me too i'm confussed i don't want to have another child with him and am against abortion its just i don't want my life to be what it is and can't see him changing do i tell him that i think i'm preg or get an abortion even though i disagree with them strongly and tell him i'm taking the bc now please help

Answer 1

in my opinion if u really dnt want 2 give the baby up, then tell ur husband that u think ur pregnant and if he leaves u then u have 2 b strong 4 ur 2 children. there is a lot of government help out there so that would kind of make it easier 4 u.

Answer 2

Get a pregnancy test.

Then get in tune with yourself and do what is best for you and your son.

Answer 3

first and most important ,YOU need to get a pregnancy test,then decide what you want to do .

do not  prejudge your condition right now.

only YOU can make the right choice for you ,but before you make any decisions ,consult the dad first.he has rights too.

Answer 4

I get where you are coming from. You are in a scary situation. I have an 8 month old and may be pregnant again but I dont think I'm ready.

BUT PLEASE DO NOT KILL YOUR BABY! If you do you will regret it for the rest of your life. After you leave the clinic you will have the fact that your little baby's life faded stuck in your mind.

It sounds to me like you are a strong woman. Make the right decision. You can handle this!

I know lots of women who are single with more than 2 children and its tough but they are tougher. They are good mothers and alot of them even have boyfriends that love their children as if they are their own.

I'm sorry to hear about your fiance. Tell him whats going on and give him the chance to change. If he doesnt then give HIM the boot...not your baby.

I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 5

First of all.....take a pregnancy test. If it comes out negative you probably aren't. It took 6-8 months after my sons were born before my period was regular again. If you are pregnant, I would do what is best for you. I personally believe it would be better to have the baby and give it up for adoption if you cannot handle another baby. However, in the end, you need to do what is best for you.