I really need help?!! 10 points to best answer?

Question

well ive always had a thing for my ex and we're both still virgins. but today he told me he lost his virginity to his gf and idk why but it just broke my heart. cause i know shes crazy about him and i know its just the beginning for them now. and i just realized im no where near close to being over him like i thought i was. what should i do??

Answer 1

I know its hard now, but you eventually will get over him.

The crazy thing about life is that you need to live it to your fullest. If you keep dwelling over this guy, its going to stop you from meeting more. and there are so much more!

Keep your head up!

Answer 2

just erase him completly out of  your life..

then i he's smart he would want to know why

you left him... and when he confronts you why

tell him you still had feelings for him and you

did want to ruin your relationship with his GF

Answer 3

well if they both really love eachother it sounds like you have to move on.

if you guys are meant to be together it will happen.

Answer 4

Move on, he did. I know it hurts but sometimes you have to know when to let go. If its meant for you 2 it will happen but i would just move on and just because he lost his virginity to her does not mean him and his gf are going to stay together. Just save yours and wait for that perfect guy be it him or not.

Answer 5

Well try talking to him tell him what are your true feelings about him and if he does not like you than maybe hes not meant 4 you, and if he does like you than tell him you want to be with him even tough he lost his virginity it does not mean that he might love her some guys do it because they want to get the experience