I really need help!! please!!?

Question

Ok so this is the total wrong section but still please help me! my b.f. and I have been going out for more than a year and I love him and he loves me but We had to break up and Its killing me, every second I'm thinking about him and I just don't know how to get over him. whenever i was hurting i always ran to him. now i'm hurting and have no one to run to. so i guess my question is how can I get over him. Or at least make it easier.btw its not that we still don't love each other, my mom said if we didn't break up she would file statutory rape charges and I don't want that for him because I wanted to have s*x with him. but its hard to let go of someone you love

Answer 1

The jury is still out on that

Answer 2

ok hun, well first of all you need to sit down and think rationally about this. Get a diary and think about all the things that were good about your relationship and what good things you achieved from it. If he is a good man and he is worth been with, but only if you are sure, then you have every right to be with him. It's always hard when people break up, there is no personal way which works for everyone. Only you will have to figure that out hun, deep down inside. In that diary too, write down all the things that you want to do in your life. Start focusing on you been a healthy young woman, and getting a good career and what a difference your going to make. Women are strong and at first you think you need a man, but you don't and the pain eases, anything is sad when you first let go of something. As for your mom, she is very wrong to do something like that if it isnt true and you dont have to put up with that! Fight for whatever feels happy in your heart, and focus on you and your life. It will get easier hun. Take care xxxx