I really need some good advice. I keep seeing her and don't know what to say.?

Question

So there is a girl that I am in love with and I told her a few months after I met her which was two years ago. The thing with her is that she likes males and females. She was with a girl a year or two before we met. She would flirt and made me think she liked me back before and after I told her how I felt. She wouldn't really say anything clearly like whether she also liked/loved me or that she didnt. Anyway, there came a time when I wanted to know because my feelings got deeper. So I confronted her about it and she told me that she knew how I felt but that she does not feel anything for me. After this I told her that I can't continue anything with her so we stopped talking. We saw each other time to time and she would talk to me and be all nice. I found out that she had a guy only during that time from when AFTER she kissed me and so on. She is still with him today. I'm definetly not over her and it hurts me to see her with him. I changed schools so I wont see her and now I find out she goes to the same university that I do with none other than her boyfriend. I really don't know what to do. I'm definetly not changing my school because I deserve to go to school and finish my education. I don't know if she has seen me there but I have seen them two times out of the three days I have class. The school is huge and still I see them. I miss her and love her so much. What am I supposed to do or say if she sees me and comes and talks to me or says hi to me? OR if she is with her bf and she stops and talks to me. I'm so confused.

Answer 1

Girl, let me tell you something. I feel you on this one. But, you definitely need to move on. Do Not ever let anyone stop you from succeeding in life. Get your education and please move past her as soon as possible.

She is definitely undecided in her life choices. By that I mean men and women.

No disrespect but bi women can't commit to one person. They want their cake and eat it too.

Look for someone who has better qualities than her! She doesn't respect you at all!

We all want something we can't have in life.

To be blunt keep it movin!

Good luck girl, that's how it was told to me and I made it past that *itch!

Answer 2

Aw honey I'm sure this is really hard... I know it seems impossible but you really need to try and move on with your life. Yes I know it's going to be hard but you don't deserve this....I'm sure you're an amazing girl and any girl would be lucky to have you.

xoxo

Answer 3

if she says hi, say hi back.  and if you see her in the hall and she sees you, don't put your head down and keep walking.  say hi.  ask her how she's been.  if she introduces you to her boyfriend shake his hand and greet him.  the worst thing you could do is sulk away.  if you still care about her, let her know indirectly.  see if maybe you two could get lunch and catch up.  don't come on too strong.  just be friendly.  show her that you've moved on, at least a little.  if there's any chance for you two, it will make her want you.  otherwise, just stay friends.  it's better to have her as a friend than not have her in your life at all, right?