I really need someone's help!!!!?

Question

I found out that my boyfriend has no being paying his parking fines which were very small, only 70 dollars each. Now I have also found out that he has not being paying his repayments on his car to the leasing company. Do you think this means he must be really badly in debt. I mean if he can't even pay a 70 dollar fine he must have money problems. What do you think?

Answer 1

Ok either hes really broke or hes bad trouble. Either way, if you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy neither of those are not good aspects. So find a new bo. Think about it, you dont want to be with sum1 that U  will end upo supporting and you dont want to be with someone who will get yhou in trouble with the law. It will probably end up in the rut anway because either way you will end up in financail trouble.

Answer 2

let him assume his responsabilities. Dont start paying for him. You want to help, but if you make his life too easy he may profit and your relation will be affected. Talk about it.

Answer 3

yea hunny, he has a prob..... If you two are serious like going to be together a while. Then he needs to be honest with you. That stuff haunts you forever. It just seems like he might be more into his self then his resposibilitys. That tells you that if you guys get married that you will allways be stuggling if someone does not help him. I watched a show on MTV about that stuff and its very hard. "compulsive shopping" and not taking care of your obligations. I would sit and think about it before you take any plunges

Answer 4

its hard for us the general public 2 tell u wat 2 do.

u need to consult ur bf and ask him what's going on

Answer 5

yeah, he either has money problems or is just incredibly irresponsible.  Please, don't bail him out.  Let him make his mistakes.

Answer 6

whats wrong with you???? why havent you breaken up with him if i was you i would break up with him like now!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Dump him.

Answer 8

I'm unemployed and I got a $120 parking ticket yesterday. As long as your man has a job, he'll be ok.

Answer 9

He could just not be taking the debt seriously which could lead to bigger debt problems in the future. He doesn't sound very responsible. You need to ask yourself how serious you are about this guy. If your just having fun his debt shouldn't matter to you. If on the other hand you want more (marriage)then I say move on!!