I really need your help!!!!!!plz......?

Question

i thought i was over it...but i was wrong!

6 months ago i had a fight with my ex...things were not that good as before she wanted to go with another guy but then came back begging me to take her...and it was duriing my exams!

the night we had that fight was before my result,so i was still angry with her as i thought that i failed...so i was doing silly stuff,getting angry for nothing and had a fight with her!

she dumped me and then say that she wants to see how it's like with other guys and know that i'm going abroad!

she eventually got a new bf 3 months after..i was so down!!she said that she didn't care that i felt hurt..

but then 1 week before i go abroad..she kept calling me and sending msg...begging me to let her see me a last time!telling me that she wants me to forgive her and that she just wants to be friends!and that she wasn't with the other guy.

we met...and eventually came back again..it was good!we didn't know if we would do long distance.but we did it.she was so nice...she would phone me...or would send me msg telling me how much she love me and that she will try her best to wait for me!

but it only lasted 2 week...as she said she couldn't cope with it and that she wants me to be with her!or doesn't want any serious relationship and just want to have fun.

but then the next day would say that she didn't love me anymore or hate how i am!

since then i haven't talk to her...i was good!not thinking of her too much!

but i just found out that less than 1 month after we split she got a new bf again!she was saying how goodlooking he is etc...

i didn't know that i would be hurt that bad!!!as i couldn't sleep the whole night,

how can someone go into another relationship so easily???

i never thought that she was like that...

as we had been together for over 1 yr...we were really close!we were always saying those silly stuff...i'm gonna love u forever or promise to each other that we gonna wait for each other...

but d**n she changed...she was never that outgoing.

i feel so hurt...

since 6month i hate my life so bad...

and i'm so hurt...

i don't know how to get over it...

Answer 1

This is so hard. Its like ripping your arm off. Hooking up with someone brings you so close. But it takes about a year before you know things about them ... Character things. You know now and her character is lacking and she's not good enough for you. It's so hard to realize but you are getting it. Go ahead live without your arm. It's better than living in misery every day with her because you can't trust her.

Answer 2

Pretty confusing , if she's gone , wish her good luck and good ridance . She spells T R O U B L E .

There so many more outhere just get out and pick one . Wake up my friend.  

Answer 3

You don't deserve her and that's all I can say to you. In as much as it hurts at first but you have to move on with your life. It's always been hard to mend a broken heart but there is no other way or a short way to overcome the pain. But don't let this feeling to hold you with your life instead think of it as a lesson and a good experience for you. To experience pain in your heart will make you even stronger next time you fall in love. Remember also that although it was an old saying but its always been the way it is "Time heals wound". So, take it one day at a time and sooner or later you'll just realized that it doesn't hurt that much or doesn't hurt you at all anymore.

"Whatever stormy weather comes along our way..there's always a light waiting that will shine through you.."

Answer 4

Time, my friend. Give it time. It took me a YEAR after my last boyfriend for me to even be able to say I was "okay".

In the meantime, you need to stop communicating with her. Although talking to her/seeing her may make you feel better at the time, truthfully it'll only set you back! The more time you spend with her, the more you'll care.

Also, you mentioned she said she would "try to wait for you", stop talking to her, and the next time she tries to come back-don't give in! Show her that anything worth having is worth waiting for!