I really only hang out with guys?

Question

Is this a problem?

I only hang out with guys mostly, I have like 50 guy friends and only 3 real girlfriends.

Plus I play 3 sports...and they call me a tomboy because I'm really good, but I'm actually pretty girly lol. how can I make it seem like I'm not a "tomboy"?

Answer 1

Well, I don't think there's anything wrong with being a tomboy! I actually think it's great that you have more guy friends than girl friends because I hang out with mostly girls, and oh, my, gosh. DRAMA. Guys are cool about things and having more guy friends will help your stress level, i think. My advice would be to just be yourself and wear what you want and decorate however you want. Don't let anyone put you under a category. You'll be much better of - trust me :)

Answer 2

You need more girl-friends... Who do you go out with to the mall? Or tell your boy stuff to??

Answer 3

is that a problem to you? if it feels wierd to you then change, if it doesnt then be yourself and do what you want to. bottom line: just be yourself. my friends actually level out between guys and girls. and my talents are playing two musical instruments, running long distance, playing sports, staying on the computer all day (lol). if you have talents playing sports well be glad you do have those talents!  

Answer 4

Don't worry about it. As long as you show your girly side a little bit, like in how you dress and such, there should be no problem. I find guys to be much more fun and interesting friends than girls, too. I hate that people automatically call girls who hang out with boys lesbians; I for one am not.

Answer 5

Girls friends are important! It's great to have guy friends, I have a lot, but my girlfriends are the best. Honestly, it's a self esteem thing...generally girls that have low self esteem have ALL guy friends. I'm not saying that is the case for you..but it is the case for many.

Answer 6

oh. i understand why you hang out with guys: they're more laid back than girls. more humble. (x

you can always make more friends that are girls, considering that you're girly. (:

Answer 7

Start wearing short skirts and tank tops, that is something that would change my mind if I was one of those guys.  But hey that's just me.

Answer 8

It does not matter.  

Answer 9

nothing wrong with you at all. all guys like hangin out with girls

Answer 10

Nothing wrong at all.

Answer 11

It sounds like they are just playing around with you.Like,teasing lol.You shouldn't be bothered what others think of you.I don't think there is much you can do to make yourself seem more feminine,if you know you are not a tomboy then you should tell them that and you don't appreciate being called it.

Answer 12

lol I've always been like you too. I can count all my female friends on one hand. i just don't click with many girls, and guys are alot nicer and chill where girls tend to make drama and be emotional. doesn't matter if your friends are all male or all female or any mix though as long as you are happy