I really think im in love but...

Question

Okay im 15 and a virgin, my boyfriends 16 and not. haha well i know im young.. and i love him .. but im not IN love with him yet... but i know i can trust him w/ my life. weve been best friends for forever and i know hes the one i want to lose my virginity to...

it can happen whenever i want basically.. but im so scared.

dont tell me that im young and i should wait because- yeah i may be young, but i know what i want and im mature enough for this step...

mostly im scared of:

-it being REALLY awkward

-me getting too attached afterward..

-the pain

and ONE last question :)

if your athletic.. is it true that you most likely wont bleed when you lose your virginity?

please answer :)

Answer 1

well if u must, at least be sensible and use protection. and for your last question, virgins bleed because their hymen have not be "ripped". women athletes sometimes rip it without having s*x when doing vigorous movement that puts stress on the area like soccer, wrestling, or horseback riding.  however, its not a guarantee that just because ur are "athletic" that you wont bleed

Answer 2

let me ask you a question- how you know that the boy ain't playing you? tell me

#1 you have s*x- you don't use a condom- you get pregnant what you gonna tell your parents- what you gonna do with the baby and dont tell me abortion bcuz you don't know what that can do to you-what if him say the child is not his WAT YOU GONNA DO?

# you have s*x-you use the condom-it breaks- you end up pregnant with an sti/std- you tranfer the sti to your baby- he says the baby ain't his- what you gonna tell your parents

let me give it to you straight-IF HE LOVED YOU- HE WOULD NOT WANT TO HAVE s*x WITH YOU AS YET becuz him know you could get pregnant and that would damage your life

try this- tell him how much pregnancy could affect your life- tell him all the details. then ask him if he loves you(he'll say yes) then ask him if he would like things like those to happen to you( he'll probably say no and then say that you could use a condom or why you asking him that)

if he brings up the condom argument- reming him that it could break. if he asks you why you are asking him that just drop the argument and i mean it DROP THE ARGUMENT!

then the next day- flirt with him and act like you are gonna have s*x with him then ask- what if i get pregnant -if he says the condom won't break or something like that you know he doesn't care about you. if he says you guys should stop then- you'll know he cares about you and will wait until you are ready. girl he is going through the same thing like you. now a days teens think you should lose their virginity as soon as possible. not me-because i knw- i don't want now guy calling me USED GOODS!!!peace

Answer 3

1) if you love him, it won't be awkward

2) you shouldn't do it till youre IN love with him

3) you will get attached, it's what s*x does.

4) it'll hurt for a little bit, but then ease up.

I've never heard the athletic thing there, but it truly just depends on your body.  

Answer 4

im not athletic but i didn't bleed when i lost my virginity -- some says its hereditary -- or that there are a lot of reasons as to why you wouldn't bleed....but the bleeding part is only a portion when it comes to loosing your virginity -- what's important is that you're comfortable with your partner and that he understands your inexperience... the pain will be there even if you won't bleed --- as to being too attached afterward -- that would likely happen to all women but then again -- you're mature enough to handle the emotions --- if you're mature enough to make such major decision then you can definitely handle things afterward right???

Answer 5

if you were mature you would know not loose your virginity at this age!

if you can trust him with your life and if you guys have been bff's for soo long then you can wait a few years.

if you really were ready you wouldnt be asking these kind of questions.

Answer 6

If you were truly ready for love, and love making then you would and could trust him and why would you want to loose your virginity to your best friend?  You don't know what you want and you just think that your mature enough to take this step in your life. But are you mature enough to take care of that baby that your taking a chance on making if the rubber was to break.  Yes it will really be awkward when you've got to tell your parents and your friends that your pregnant because you were mature enough to take this next step. Yes you will get attached to the baby that you made, because he will no longer have anything to do with you,  And oh yes, you will definitely feel the pain, when that baby is being born.  Athletic or not you will bleed, especially when that babies head is crowning.  But remember your MATURE ENOUGH TO TAKE THIS STEP