I really want a baby soon?

Question

Hey ladies I want a baby soon especially now since i was diagnosed with pcos due to my recent weight gain. I am trying to lose the weight and I am on birth control as treatment. I am not married but i've been with my boyfriend for 5years. I am still in college I have 2 years to go. I told my boyfriend I want a baby but all he says is ''not now'' how can I get over this urge to have a little one grow inside me.?? please help all advice is welcomed. thanks in advance

Answer 1

I encourage you to just continue on with your school and build your relationship with your boyfriend.  Even thought the two of you have been together for such a long time, it would be hard to willingly bring a baby into an insecure relationship.  I would suggest waiting until you are married and on your way with your career.  I have PCOS as well and have been unable to get pregnant yet and many women with pcos have trouble conceiving naturally.  But they are able to have healthy babies with a little bit of assistance.  So don't let PCOS make you feel as if you are unable to ever have a child.  Your opportunity will come and it will be perfect for you when it does! :)

Answer 2

I think we can wish we knew the answer to how we can conceivee. But I'm in the same boat you are in, my weight is 235lbs and have PCOS. I know I need to lose some weight, but I'm going to still try to have a baby. I think also your boyfriend is telling you to wait because you all are still in college and maybe the timing isn't right. But I say this, if you are having unprotected s*x, then you all mustt want to get pregnant. I say be patient and in do time, you will have your child. Another thing, that feeling of wishing for a child only get stronger, it don't go away. take care and good luck

Answer 3

try to focus your energy on school, trust me, you may think you want a little bun in the oven right now but there is a lot that comes after that bun is done and it's hard trying to juggle a baby verses a career and then to possibly take care of it alone because your boyfriend seems destined for other things at this time, i say wait a little while longer.

Answer 4

Supress the urge a little by concentrating on school and keeping the positive attitude that one you finish you will be able to find a nice paying job and provide a lot better than you can right now.

Answer 5

I don't know if women can ever get over the urge to have a baby growing inside of them.

Something that you can do while you are waiting for the right time to start a family of your own, is to baby sit and  and spend time with children. It will  help fill the void in a small way now, and help pay off a lot in the future. I hope you get to start your family soon =)