I really want guages but I need some help?

Question

Well I really want to stretch my ears or get plugs or get guages people call it different stuff. I think that if I did it my mom would flip (im 14). I dont how to convince her to let me or even go about asking her. If I said anything about it she would probibly just be like no that really gross and unatractive. Also I need some tips on doing it and stuff.

Answer 1

At 4g, they still look like regular studs.

Stretch slowly, with tapers, and lots of lube. Leave about a month between stretches, and don't skip sizes. Tapers aren't jewellery, so buy plugs too. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong, go back a size, and wait a couple of weeks before you try stretching again.

Answer 2

aight babe. im 14 too. my parents werent fond of it either but s***w them its my body.

im at half of a inch now.

how big are you looking to go?

dont ever bring it up with your parents.

go to were ever they sell gauges around you and get the next size taper for your ear. if you dont know what a taper is search it.

try to get as much earring as you can each time out so your parents wont get suspiscious.

and dont stretch your ear to fast. preferably wait a week between stretching. maybe even 2.

and your lucky since you most likely have long hair to cover up your ears. wear you hair down 24/7.

if it hurts while stretching you should try numbing your ear with ice then  push the taper through.

if you have a flared plug in your ear while your sleeping it will most likely fall out so dont lose them! haha.

keep in touch with me on your progress and if you have any problem feel free to ask.

if you want my screen name for aim so we can talk easier just ask.

Answer 3

First of all, you're scheming to disrespect and deceive your Mom. Not cool. If you really want to do gauges when you're legally an adult, do it. Mom would probably tell you the same thing. Just know there will be consequences if you have it done now regardless. There is a whole lot bigger issue here than just kid stuff. You will lose her trust and belief in your words and she will not appreciate the blatant in her face attitude with your gauges in your ears as a constant reminder to her each and every day. It's your call. Just be ready to deal when she tells you when it's her call! Think about this one, sweetie.  

Answer 4

Pray to god that you have an accepting mother. And then....women up and ask. Theres really no t.v show that can softly lead you into a conversation about gauged ears. You've pretty much gotta get in the trenches and fight that battle. I know I did....and now I have 00's in my ears! My mom hates it but...it'll be ok.  

Answer 5

I recommend only slightly gauging your ears. That's what I have. Have you ever seen someones ears with 00 gauges without the metal? It isn't all that pretty. You can do the slight increase yourself, if you don't mind a little bit of pain. Suggestion: Never go up more than one size at a time!