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Question

Why doesn't anyone here like me? All I'm trying to do is come to Yahoo for sincere advice. I get bashed. Daily.

For sometime now I've come on here and there may be that one person who gives me really good advice with my situation.

I am looking for a way to make my fiance's ex my friend. It seems she hates me. I just called her and told her that I wanted to throw her a dinner party and again I get cursed at.

Maybe I should make it a surprise party this way she will have to show up?

What is everyone's thoughts on this?

Answer 1

Oh wah...........there are not too many people that like there ex's new love, how uncomfortable.  Grow up and just be real instead of in your own little perfect world.  

Answer 2

It's not that no one likes you here.  It's that you just won't take a hint.  And, on top of that, you want advice on how to fix it?  Huh??

Answer 3

Not trying to be rude but first impressions say a lot....change your avatar, its bad.

I have read a couple of your questions and it sounds like there is a lot of drama going on in your relationship.  From what I gather it does not sound like your fiance even respects you, he seems to stick up for her.  So in my opinion you are fighting an uphill battle.

If your fiance and his ex have a child together then try to be civil for the child's sake, otherwise stop trying and let it go.

Answer 4

you cant make someone like you... not everyone likes me either and I dont like everyone i meet either... time to give it up... forget her...... unless you have an ulterior motive.... focus your time and energy elsewhere.....

Answer 5

Why are you so concerned about her liking you? That doesn't make any sense. A surprise dinner party? LOL how will she know about it then?

Answer 6

Why do you mark your questions to come here? Can you put them in the entertainment section only for now on?

Answer 7

Why do you want her to like you so much?

If she curses at you, this generally means she doesn't like you. Maybe she feels that you are throwing your and her ex relationship in her face.

Just let it go! Find another friend.

Answer 8

Leave her alone, you are only making it worse because I'm sure by now she thinks your nuts.

Answer 9

Hey, the only difference between a soccer mom and a pitbull is the lipstick. Watch out for pitbulls....You can do it.

Answer 10

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.  

Ever heard that expression?  It applies to your situation.  You cannot force someone to like you.  You tried, multiple times.  She did not take the bait.  Give it up.

Answer 11

honey you can make someone like you . especially your fiance'ex . if she wont be friend maybe it is for the best . why are you trying to force her to be your friend anyway . i dont get it .  

Answer 12

i'm sorry, but you should take a hint.  WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THAT. i mean all it could bring you is trouble. it's funny cause normally people are trying to stay away from the 'exs' and here you are trying to bring this on in... just do yourself and (specially) your fiance a favor and leave her alone, trust me it will save you so much headaches