I really want to find my half brother i have never met him my dad told me about him when i was about 10 i am ?

Question

i am looking for my half brother my dad split with my brothers mam when he was a baby and she took him back to her home town and my dad has not been in contact with him since my dad only told me when i was 10 that i have a brother and i am now 24 and i have 2 sons of my own n ow and i really want him to meet my family and i want to meet his family to soo please if u can will u help me?

Answer 1

Oh bud...be careful not to make this an obsession. My own brothers have not even met my 3 year old boy and likely not to meet my adopted 14 year girl or baby girl who will be born in 5 weeks. I know that if I got to think too much about this, it would drive me crazy. Get the information without it being a priority...make it a background task. Your main task is to take care of your wife and kids. Keep your focus on them. You might wind up terribly depressed if you make your priority different.  Its hard enough to take care of your wife and kids let alone chase something like this down. Just be happy for now. I am sure that you have intiated some things but use your enery sparingly towards this...You are proud of your family...make that the utmost important thing. Take Care

Answer 2

I am wondering if the Geneology section might have ideas for you to try. Best wishes. UK

Answer 3

try looking on friends reunited or something, i take it you know his name and age so try tracking down his mum and ask your dad as much as he knows about them if you would like to email me all the information i can try helping you look if you want i recenlty found my sister, my email address is [e-mail]

Answer 4

Since your over the age of 18 this situation becomes very easy...

On your birth certificate it says the name of the mother & father, since your mother took away your brother you need to come in contact with her. If you have no idea where she is there is a way to find her.

1) FREE, or a little bit of cash: You can manually look her up in phone books, or if you know where she works look there. There is also cheap websites and offices that can track down a list of people with that name and you can go from there.

2) expensive, but worth it: This option cost a bit of money, but if your serious about wanting to meet your brother then no amount of money can ever be worth that. Take all the deatails you know and have your father come with you and go to a privete invesagator. These people can track down just about anyone on this planet.

Good Luck!

It will be hard work, You will get frustrated and more than likly you will get your hops up a time or two, but keep trying and don't give up and you will be united again.

XXCrissy