I really want to get pregnant..help?

Question

I really want to get pregnant and I know my husband it wanting one too.But every time we have s*x he's first to the bathroom to get a condom!

I'd like to surprise him with my pregnancy...but how can I get pregnant without him knowing I'm trying?

Argh..so stressful...

Any advice?

THANKS!

Answer 1

I think you should talk it over with your hub.  don't just surprise him.  

Answer 2

Get scott drunk lmao.You know he wants a baby He's probably just not sure you want one. little miss I'm too fat already, lmao

Answer 3

Obviously you two are not on the same page since he is using a condom.  You need to sit down with him and have a long talk about having a baby.  If you "trick" him in to it he many not be too happy or resent you, at least in the beginning.  Good luck.

Answer 4

I understand how you feel, and know how it feels to want a baby but, this is something that really needs to be discussed between the two of you. Surprising him with a pregnancy, in my opinion does not sound like a good idea, seeing as how he's still reaching for condoms before having s*x. I would just sit down and have a heart to heart with him, and let him know what your desires are, and see where you both stand. Get everything out in the open, lay it all out on the table, and then take it from there. I think you'd be happier, and feel better about this situation in the long run. Talking resolves a lot. Good luck to you, and I hope this falls into place for you :)

Answer 5

You can still surprise him with the pregnancy. You just need to make sure and talk to him and let him know that you are ready to stop using condoms and let things take the natural course. As long as he is game then go ahead with it. If you want to surprise him don't talk about whether you might be or might not be and go get a pregnancy test every once in a while. Once you get a positive test you wrap it up like a present cook him a gourmet dinner and give it to him before dessert.

Answer 6

You need to talk to your husband. If he's using condoms he's not on the same page as you.

Answer 7

If you know for sure that he wants a baby as well you could always tell him that you're not ovulating and that you don't need to use a condom. But you should not absolutely FOR SURE that he wants a baby too. Otherwise it could be a disaster for both of you.

Answer 8

Don't surprise him, that's unfair.  You need to talk it over with him and MAKE SURE it's something you both want.