I really want to go on a ski trip with my friends how do I convince my mom to let me?

Question

One of my friends invited everyone to go skiing with her. Her parents won't be there so it will be unchaperoned and plus everyone is bringing their boyfriends so of course I want to bring mine's too. It's not what you guys are probably thinking because we aren't even having s*x yet but I know that's what my mom would think. And I know my parents will probably say no so I was thinking should I lie about the whole thing and say it's all girls and my friends parents' are going to be there or maybe say I'm going to spend the night at one of my friends house for the weekend. Or is there a way I can tell the truth and get permission?

Answer 1

I was in your situation when i was younger. To be honest say the truth but not the complete story or else your parents will freak out. Just be like my friends are going skiing this weekend and i'd like to go. And bring out the fact that you may have good grades or not really go out or that you did the chores on time. It really works but you have to be serious and talk as if you know what your doing. Parents only want the best for you that's why they care so much and i think if you lie to them and something happens that weekend they will be more disappointed in you when they find out. But you know your parents well, find your way and speak the truth and remember details are not necessary and don't mention your boyfriend is going that wouldnt be so good...Good luck!

Answer 2

Tell the truth. Lying is low and not mature. If they find out, they'll be even more convinced you're having s*x.

Just tell them the truth. If they go to say no, ask them if they can trust you. If they still say no, accept it. It's not worth fighting over. When you're older, you'll be able to do what you please.

Honeslty though, if I were a parent, I would only allow you if you were over 17 and that I could trust you.  

Answer 3

The best thing you can do is tell the truth, whether they allow you to go or not. I know you want to go, but really you are your parents responsibility and they probably won't allow you to go without some kind of parental supervision. I know if you were my child, I would not, because it really is just a bad idea (trust me, you will understand this once you're a parent someday and it's your child). If you lie and go with them, your parents will eventually find out and you will be in bigger trouble than you ever could imagine. Trust me on this, the second you break your parents trust like that, it will be very, very hard to gain it back and you will lose many of  your privileges.

Trust me, I pulled something similar when I was a teen and it took a long time for my parents to trust me again.