I really want to have s*x but I know I shouldn't?

Question

Okay, so i'm 15 and I've had a boyfriend for 3 months now. He's really sweet, perfect for me and would never hurt a fly. We're both virgins and he asked me if I would have s*x with him... I said "No.... Not at this age" He told me that he would never pressure me - I trust that he wouldn't. But recently, I've began to really really like him, and as much as I know I shouldn't and I KNOW the majority of people who will answer this will be all like "Your too young" "Save it for marriage" etc... But to be honest, I just really want to have s*x - like most teenagers. How do I stop this? Or should I wait till i'm sixteen and went out with him for longer? Any advice or experience you guys have would be great.

Answer 1

If you've got to do it, you've got to do it, BUT at that age condom and birth control don't do it without both of those. Be REALLY careful at that age.

Answer 2

NO!I don't think you should.The young age your at most guys will sleep with you and leave.I'm sorry this is the way it is.I'm not saying he will leave you.I'm saying MOST of them will.

Answer 3

Do as you please.  Having said that, do you understand the possible consequences of s*x?  Pregnancy is number one on the list and NO contraceptive is 100% certain.  So, plan for what you are going to do when you become pregnant.  You'll need to tell your parents, decide whether to complete the pregnancy, if you do complete it are you going to keep the child and let your folks raise it (because you are still a child yourself and not ready to parent a baby), if you do not complete the pregnancy there may be severe emotional issues associated with aborting a fetus, and, if you do keep the baby, who will raise the $300,000 or so necessary to raise a child.  These are pretty adult problems that folks face all the time.  If you are ready to face them, proceed as you wish.

Answer 4

You definitely shouldn't have s*x with him. It is perfectly normal to want to have s*x, but think of all the consequences. And from all the people who have lost their virginity early, they always say the same thing- "I regret it".

I even think 16 is the wrong age to have s*x, you should be at least 18 or something like that and in a MATURE relationship. By that I mean soemone you can totally lean on and trust, not just a highschool boyfriend. Because while he loves you now, what happens when you get pregnant- or you get an STD?

I have a friend who lost her virginity at 15, and the whole school found out, and to say the least she is literally labeled a wh*re.

I am 16, and the farthest I would go is oral s*x.

And also, most teenagers don't lose their virginity. Though it seems like it, it's false.

I wish you good luck, but seriously think before you do anything, like consequences and religion and whatever you have to think about. But I think it would be worth the wait, because when you get older you want to have lost your virginity to the greatest guy in the world.

xoxo

Answer 5

I know it is hard to wait.  Three months is not really all that long,it may seem long to you because you are young.  Just remember s*x is not just s*x, it is something special.  Especially your first, it will be something you never forget. (god forbid you ever do brake up it will probably be one of the hardest things to get over the first always is) If you do give in to the temptation just remember to protect your self, I am sure you do not want a child.  Yes you can get pregnant from the first time.  Just the fact that you are asking for advise means that you are smart and have a good head on your shoulders, so be careful.  

Answer 6

18 is a good age.  You will regret having s*x that young in a little bit.  I wouldn't rush into it just because your hormones are wild right now.   Plus, i know ppl in their 20's that won't even sleep with a guy after 3 months.  That is way too early in a relationship to consider that.  

Plus, having s*x at a young age can give you an ugly label at school when ppl find out.  Is it really worth it?

If you do, please be smart about it and use protection. The world doesn't need another teenage mother.  

Answer 7

Wait till you're 16.

Answer 8

loose your virginity when your 18 and do it with someone you trust if your feeling horny i dont know just ...

Answer 9

wait till u have ur own roof.u don't wanna end school and your education just in case the u know what burst while your having it.so wait an he Will understand.so don't be in a rush ull have time

Answer 10

s*x is **** the first time round anyway! Trust me I was 18 and it really sucked! Just follow your gut because whether you do it now or later it's still gonna be c**p!

Answer 11

If you are both ready for s*x...then go for it that's all i can say but be careful.