I received an I LOve u SMS from my bf that was not for me.it has a name of another girl.?

Question

me and my bf is in long distance relationship. we were always ok, until one time they were having a group study at his friends house. it was late nyt and he said he had to go to sleep . so i said ok and said gudnyt..after an hour later I receive an SMS from him saying I Love u to another girl. i felt devastated. i called him that night and it took him a long tym to answer he said he was sleeping and he didnt know wat i was saying and then later he said that his friend borrowed his phone to tx her gf coz he had no credit and accindentally sent it to me,

My bf swears that is not him .. he said he swears to God , swears to the life of his parents that it was not him. but still i cant find myself to believe ,.. its been 5 days now that i still ask him about the SMS but now hes mad because i dont trust him and never believes in everything that he says.And hes really mad and wont talk to me. He said "let me cool down first before we talk again,,"

I dont know what to do. he said he loves me so much and cant afford lose me.. and i cant afford to lose him either,,but the SMS still bothers me,, help me please..

Answer 1

it was probably an ex he was talking to because if hes gonna drop the L word hes clearly had a lot of contact with the person for a long time... you should probably tell him to beat it

Answer 2

Baby, there will be times when your BF will transgress.  It will not be on a regular basis BUT nevertheless, there will be instances.

Now, you have two choices.  1)  Make life h**l for him and yourself which will eventually lead to a break down and break up.

OR

2)  Have a large heart.  Overlook the mistake and forgive his trespasses (intentional or unintentional).  After all for love to grow, peace of mind is a pre-requisite.

It is prudent to give him the benefit of doubt and let the matter rest.  There are more important things going on in this world.  Look at life in the larger context.  Believe me, you will be doing yourself a big favour.

Answer 3

Since it's a long distance relationship he's probably got a couple girls going at once. Think about it this way, IF it was his friend why did he send it to you? He would have typed in HIS girlfriends phone number not sent it through contacts. And he was probably used to sending you msgs so he got mixed up. I mean I've done the "send to wrong person" thing and that's because in a second I forgot who I was sending it to. So it's SO him.

Answer 4

Break up with him because one he's lying and two long distance relationships never work.  

Answer 5

Sorry to say, but he's probably cheating. It is a long distance relationship so it's not unheard of.

Answer 6

Have you ever heard of Ockham's Razor? It basically states that the most likely explanation is the one that's most likely to be correct.

Sorry sweetie, but I think you're being played. It's sadly all too common for serial LDR people (both guys & gals) to keep multiple partners without the other knowing. The fact that he took so long to get back to you makes me a bit suspicious & makes me think that he was trying to think up a good excuse. I also want to warn you that swearing to _____ doesn't mean anything. I've dated guys who've sworn on their mom's name that they weren't cheating/lying/ect & those were always the ones that ended up doing exactly what they were trying to deny.

If you do choose to stay his LDR, then please be careful. It's all too common for people to cheat in these situations. I'd take everything he says with a grain of salt from now on & try to actually talk to him over the phone rather than via text messages. It's more personal & you'll be able to tell if he's telling the truth or not. (You can't read voice tones via text message.)

Answer 7

Wring his neck then! You have the upper hand and the first guy is right he's known this girl for a while but don't worry about it ! It's not so bad. Wait , yes it is .

Answer 8

well i will tell u something and ask it to yourself and this will decide weather he love u so much or no

the question is do his actions toward you prove that he love you so much lately is he changed lately or he still the same?

if the answer is he is still the same so try to forget about the sms now till u have strong prove  if no so he send this sms to another girl but by accident he send it to u and then u have to see what u wanna do to forgive or to face him with it